should i sign them or contest them and try to recover my property she stole
2006-09-21 01:51:18 · 18 answers · asked by ransom4660 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You first have your lawyer look them over, if you are not satisfied with the terms(she has stuff thats really "just" yours), wait to sign them until the wording is to your satisfaction. I would'nt want to be married to someone who does not want to be married to me.
2006-09-21 01:57:03 · answer #1 · answered by POPPY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you sign them you might think your taking the easy way out but contest them may not be worth your time, so with out knowing all the facts my suggestion to you is to sign them because the property she stole is just a constant reminder of her and new things or property should brighten your spirits, she also could have taken the property to savor memories she had with you, i dont know what she has but when your faced with a decision like this i think its best to stick with the old saying out with the old in with the new. good luck.
2006-09-21 01:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by Now and Again 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a very personal decision. I had always said that I would not fight over "stuff" because it can almost always be replaced. When my ex-husband and I split, he broke into the home about a week before our divorce decree was issued and took furniture, etc. I let him. What possible good would it do to fight over a couch? It wouldn't make me feel better, and I just wasn't going to waste my time. He was shocked, and I think, was looking for a fight, if not at least a reaction. So, decide how important the "stuff"really is - can it be replaced, eventually? Good Luck and be strong!
2006-09-21 02:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by working mom of 3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an attorney first, do not sign anything till he looks at the papers. He will help you get what belongs to you.
2006-09-21 01:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contest them until you receive the property back.
2006-09-21 02:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by AVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a lawyer if property is involved. ASAP! Good Luck!
2006-09-21 01:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
See a lawyer. They do come in handy at times like this.
2006-09-21 02:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How much money do you want to spend getting your stuff back? Is it worth your time and mental health?
2006-09-21 01:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear of this happening to you I hope you have a great lawyer
2006-09-21 02:13:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it in settlement agreement unless you can really live without them
2006-09-21 02:05:50 · answer #10 · answered by Raineybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋