he dumped me on sunday via text, we met on holiday 6 weeks ago. i slept at his quite often and got on really well with his mum. but after we split his mum texted me askin to still visit her. i've told i'd think about it but im not sure whether i should. what do you think?
2006-09-21 02:00:50 · 17 answers · asked by KiRSTY--BB3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he lives in stafford, and i live in coventry so it will be pretty difficult for us to just visit for coffee. im not sure how old his mum is but i seemed to have got on more with her than him as it goes. and i think i might be able to cope seeing him if he has a new girlfriend. because i've already moved on. i like someone else. but what im afraid of is if he asks me back and im with someone new. he split me and my other ex up, so i don't know whaat to do. please help thanks, lilacluva xxx
2006-09-21 02:13:17 · update #1
Sorry to hear that he dumped you and via txt as well, what a wimp!!Any way as nice as his mum may have been i dont think its a good idea to go and see her.He will definatly think you have just gone to see him!!Just explain to his mum that your very flattered that she would still like you to visit but that you dont think its a very good idea at the moment!She will understand x
2006-09-21 02:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mum wants to softern the impact n make sure you're all okay. Meet her for coffee outside once in a while but don visit her at his place. Actually, on second thought, just msg her you're okay and don't visit. It complicates matters.
You need to save a part of your heart for you real future mother-in-law.
2006-09-21 02:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have his cake and eat it, it is his concern including had to administration you. do no longer even evaluate him now. He sounds as in case you reside with him it rather is going to finally end up being grief all the time. Do you somewhat need that? bypass out. do no longer concern what he calls you. he's immature besides. Have some laughs and do exactly no longer waste time fretting over him.
2016-12-12 12:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same situation but mine is with his grandma, and weve been together for 3yrs if i were you and decided to visit i would only go when hes not around unless you two are still friends, and when he comes home i would suggest you leave. Also watch out for the new girlfriend, im waiting on that cuz i know it will kill me.
if you cant manage to visit her consider calling or even taking her out to eat occasionally.
2006-09-21 02:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on gill plenty more out there, his loss. but if your friendship is that good with his mom nothing stopping you from seeing her. Im sure he will go begging you back after a few visits.
2006-09-21 02:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by flikapotamus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is no...dont go see her, it will open old wounds, if she wants to see you, then ask her to meet you in a place that you go to....getting dumped is not nice, if you see this guy again it may upset you, or better still call it a day and move on, dont go back to your past
2006-09-21 02:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You split your own relationship up girl, it takes two to tango.
As for any other issues you have, I'm on the side of your first ex so, as I don't have anything nice to say, I'm not going to write anything else.
2006-09-21 02:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly i think you should just move on, but if you are good friends then just see her once in a while.
2006-09-21 02:05:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your age difference with his mum only ask yourself if your there one day and he walks in with his new girlfriend what would you do? Are you going to befriend her aswell?
2006-09-21 02:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by Jo. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can visit you if she wants to see you bad enough.
2006-09-21 02:06:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋