Hey all I have a problem and i need advice?
My girl and i have or had a good relationship for a long time almost 4 years we have both done some jive things to each other but our relationship has and is losing its fire. Im losing her to her friends in which I feel I should come first especially when Im home because im away at school. She really doesnt express herself that much to me anymore. She and we usually say I love you all the time but we havent said it in almost a week now, shes not as bubbly or loving as she used to be. I tried to talk it over with her and because I've done this on numerous occasions she doesnt want 2 hear it anymore. I love her a whole lot but Im completely lost?
2006-09-21 01:52:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Reading between the lines, "I'm away at school" implies a long-distance relationship. Those are tough, because during the times you're gone, she is relying on friends. Consequently, she may have grown away from you, and, unfortunately, her feelings may have changed over time. If you will soon be done with school, it may be possible to save the relationship. If the long distance thing continues, though, it's going to be really tough to hang on. I suggest you deal with the situation from that understanding.
2006-09-21 01:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a tough thing to lose the fire you once had in the beginning...and if she don't seem interested in the relationship as much and avoids talking about it...then she may have other plans and won't talk...you need to express to her you really want to talk and if she keeps avoiding then tell her you don't want to do it anymore and if she wants to play those mind games to play them with someone else...it's not worth it to keep wondering all the time...now is the time to really find out if she loves you anymore...make her listen..
2006-09-21 09:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by mouseymom24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as if your girlfriend is no longer feeling the same about you. She seems to have lost interest in you and it is only you who is keeping this relationship alive.Let go there is a lot of fish in the sea.
2006-09-21 09:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by MCA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesn't want to compromise in the relationship with you, or worry about how your feeling, that should tell you something, leave her alone, if she cares that much about you she'll come back and change, if not then isn't it better you know now then to know later after you've wasted all that time and energy trying to love someone who doesn't want to be loved.
2006-09-21 09:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by thugangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time. Probably she needs time to think it over. To find out if she wants to stay in the relationship. "If you love something let it go, if it comes back to you it's yours, if it doesn't it never was"...
2006-09-21 08:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by justbu40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you truly feel, and if she does not respond to that, maybe you need to move on with your life WITHOUT HER! That's the way life is baby!
2006-09-21 09:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by maximus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely sounds like she's lost interest.
2006-09-21 09:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by Violet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you guys either need a break or need to break up.
2006-09-21 08:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's gone and you're slowly discovering that fact.
2006-09-21 09:21:10 · answer #9 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE YA'LL HAVE DRIFTED APART,AND ARE HANGING ON FOR UNKNOWN REASONS
2006-09-21 09:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by dustikennedy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋