I ve known her for only 7 months ,i really had a crush on her,i ve been trying to court her but i am working very far away frm where she is currently. she is studying in university,and there another guy trying to court her.Do i still have a chance?and how to win her heart can anyone help??
2006-09-21 00:36:50 · 9 answers · asked by lamlieth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you've been trying to court her? so how has her response been so far? if she is responding positively, and she hasn't asked you to stop harassing her, then continue your pursuit!
You HAVE the advantage given that you are working far away becos your sincerity and effort can move her! Are you willing to show yp at her doorstep and surprise her? Travel back alone after a date? And if things work out, do this long term? If your answer is stil yes, then I really hope you go all out and win her heart..send her cards once a week, flowers too, ask her out for a good cosy dinner.... make her feel wanted and respected but dun over-do it (space it out every few days)
Go for it if you tink she's worth it!
2006-09-21 01:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you still have a chance once you are willing to go the extra mile to win her heart.
As you said you have a competitor now. So make her know that you care about her. Be yourself around her, don't try pretending to be something you are not.
And when you go to visit her do not over stay even though you would want to be with her since you love but do not over do it or else she would get used to you and will not miss your absence.
I wish you good luck with you love life.
2006-09-21 08:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple just ask her out if you want to get to the chance to be with her, but best always is take it slowly and always have a realtionship with a lady with starting of as a friend, before you can call her yours.
Ask her does she want to go out for a coffee after uni and if she say yes thats a chance she might like tos ay yes again if you happen to ask her to the movies, but keep it low so you wouldnt lose a friend and a relationship, so is a 50 50 chances on her saying yes and mayb
2006-09-21 07:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my its really hard tho....but if u dun try u wont know whats the ending of it right....later on on the future u will regret....i suggest that u shuld tell her that u had a crush on her be honest to her...
Make her feel touched by sending her home protect her...dun let the other guy grabs the chance
2006-09-21 07:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by windy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
helo...
you knw wat?...as long as the girl is not married, anybody has a chance...even you...and even if there's another guy hu is trying to court her, the answer will be from the girl..."may the best man win..."
and 7 months is good enough to make your relationship deeper...(that is if she also wants to)...
ask her out...then try to impress her...but don't be too showy...
if you felt like she's not interested to you, then think about it again...
i'm not really good at advising others...but i hope this could help...hehehe...
2006-09-21 07:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by _sapphire princess_ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you go for it, Yeah I mean someone else is going after her but that dosn't mean that you don't have a chance. If the timing is right and she is alone, go up and introduce yourself and start talking. Just because some other guy likes her, That dosn't mean that she is gonna like him. What if he ask's her out and she said no, you never did? you just blew your chances with here. So go up and talk to her, Get to know her.
2006-09-21 07:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is make he r feel special.. call her sometime. but donot over do anything .. ask her out.. you gotta find time for to court her... donot let her go just coz u live / work too far.. if u really like her... all the best...
2006-09-21 07:44:29 · answer #7 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does she like.try taking interest in thing that she likes and get something in common with her when u do,ask her to do something with u(aka)a date.and one more piece of advice lesion to what she says and u should be OK.
2006-09-21 07:53:00 · answer #8 · answered by 1E80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her feel special
gain her trust and b loyal
2006-09-21 08:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by M u Z z I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋