2006-09-21 00:33:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sometimes relationships require compromise. Time to tell mom and dad there are decisions that you want to make, or at least have some input with.... Doing "whatever they want", like chores or finishing school should never be an issue. Neither should respect. Take the steps toward adulthood responsibily. Do not jeapordize yourself and most parents can live with kids growing up. And thank God every day that you have people in your life who even consider what might be best for you and are willing to back that up.
2006-09-21 00:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Live my own life, and dissapoint my parents, im sorry but even though they think they always know what's best for me, it really may not be, i am not gonna make myself unhappy to make my parents happy! I'll try to compromise, but if my mom just doesnt want to, well then that's her.
2006-09-21 00:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by Here2Help 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Got to live life for yourself. In the end, you are the only one who can make you happy. Your parents might want whats is best for you and all. Its in their job description, but at the end of the day, you have to be able to look yourself in the face and know you live life for you . Once you know you control your life and destiny and you live it for you, you will become a better person in life in general. If you do what your parents want, you will eventually find bitterness towards them for trying to control you and you might lose that relationship with them..
Live your life for you . the parents might be upset right now, but they forgive eventually, thats in their job sescription also :)
2006-09-21 00:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU DO NOT MENTION YOUR AGE
2006-09-21 01:07:21
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If living your own life is something illegal or harmful then I would look to my parents for advice. However, we all have to do what makes us fulfilled, not what makes our parents complete.
2006-09-21 00:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by stargazer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually i'd want to live my own life but i wont wish to hurt my parents & i believe in karma so i would hope to have a mix of both-do what they want me to do like get a good education then do what i want
tough qn
2006-09-21 00:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by liz c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to live the life that you are happy and comfortable with....its always nice for you parents to be supportive but you still need to do what you want to do.......youll be surprised as to how far you have to go to actually be a disappointment in any parents eye.......Most parents will be happy providing their child is happy.......
2006-09-21 00:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by askaway 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's your life and you have the right to do what makes you happy. If you can't do this because you really feel guilty and it is important to you that you make them happy, maybe you can compromise with them.
2006-09-21 00:39:08 · answer #8 · answered by RKC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I live my own life and do exactly what I want. If others don't like it, too bad. They're not so perfect and need to worry about themselves.
2006-09-21 00:39:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i used to live for what my parents wanted....till i got fed up and one day cracked and stood up to them...best thing i have ever done in my life
2006-09-21 00:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋