My boyfriend of 2 years has been cheating on me behind my back. I'm so heartbroken and the girl is his ex.
2006-09-21 00:12:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I stayed a virgin for 2 years in our relationship and I lost it to him. I think he was impatinet with me.
2006-09-21 00:17:23 · update #1
trust me grrl, it does hurt rly bad. i kno bc ive experienced it myself. my bf of 9 mths (who wuz also my fiance 4 4 mths) chtd on me abt 3 or 4 wks b4 he brk up w/ me, which wuz on august 14th. we 1st got 2gthr on november 8th of 2005 & ended on august 14th of 2006. we got engaged the day b4 my bday-april 18th-tht wuz my bday present 2 me fm him. it wuz the best bday present evr. now we're stl tlkn & hes sayn tht he regrets chtng on me & tht he feels bad 4 dng it 2 me. smthng tells me tht he wnts me bck, but he jst dsnt kno how 2 do it. hes got a new gf now, & i cant stand her! she treats him so bad & hes stl w/ her
2006-09-21 01:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jeanette (juh-net) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd make him my ex and then find someone who loved me in the first place. A man that will cheat on his girlfriend never loved her to Begin with. Yes it was 2 years but that don't make it love. He had a chose to hurt you or love you he chose to hurt you. I know it's hard but be thankful that you didn't waste anymore time on someone who chooses to hurt in one of the worst ways. Also I'd go get an AIDS test. If he doesn't care if he hurt you he isn't going to care if he exposed you IF YOUR STILL A VIRGIN THEN STAY A VIRGIN
2006-09-21 07:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by autumnbrookblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The smart thing would be to take a break or break it off completely - I don't know if you can ever heal the trust - he has crushed you. It happened to me and I guess deep down I knew it because of the character of the person. The end was inevitable sooner or later. I sympathize with you - it is a crusher and a complete betrayal of trust - never mind the health issues - there will be better days ahead believe me.
2006-09-21 07:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can he be your lover when he stil has not left her ex and cheating u. Just leave him for good. U can find a better one, but be careful, u have already learned a lesson.
2006-09-21 07:19:44 · answer #4 · answered by pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd find a new man. Theres no excuse for cheating in my book.
2006-09-21 07:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by *Mz Ciska* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him immediately. Once the trust is lost, the relationship is damaged, no matter, how much you try to fix it. Don't waste your time.
2006-09-21 07:15:37 · answer #6 · answered by June 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He'd never see or hear from me again. I'd show him I'm living my life just fine without him.
2006-09-21 07:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would nail his nuts to a wall!!! Poor you his loss chin up sweetie x
2006-09-21 07:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by dizzymooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd want to get revenge for hurting me sooo bad,. like what ever i know would hurt him the most i'd do!!!!!!
2006-09-21 07:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by Here2Help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bash him up an leave him
2006-09-21 07:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by windy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋