Ok, I am 4 years older than this girl i really really love!!! BUT all her mom sees is our age diffrence. I feel that if she really knew me then she wouldn't mind me going out with her daughter.What should i do???
2006-09-21 00:28:26 · 8 answers · asked by John R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By reading your question the answer which came dash in to my mind is
Impress the Mom..... Ways to impress her you are the king of this situation. you will find the way.
I know you certainly will
My best wishes wid you
2006-09-21 00:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very genuine. Don't go overboard trying to impress her or she'll see right through it and think you are fake. She'll hate you more and not trust you. If you treat her daughter with respect and she sees her daughter is happy with you and can depend on you, she will probably soften up. But it also depends on exactly what your ages are. I would need to know that before saying if there is really a chance.
2006-09-21 10:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by Yen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to spend some time with the fam.
As hard as this may be....for right now.....less time with just the two of you and more time with the fam. That way, her mom can see that you're really serious about this and the family can form bonds with you.
If you really love her, the only way is to get to know her family and for her family to be able to get to know you.
2006-09-21 07:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is she? You? To win over the mom, you have to respect her daughter and make yourself a contributor to their home. Perhaps not in $$$$, but rather in "acts". All ways have initiative. Also, be VERY appreciate of any generous gesture that comes your way from your girl or her mom.
2006-09-21 07:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by Zoila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to impress the mom if you and your girl are happy together then that is all that matters once she sees yall are going to be together she will have to get over the age difference.
2006-09-21 07:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by shelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try impressing her. Give the mother some flowers, and tell her how much you love and care for her daughter.
2006-09-21 07:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by hannah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very, very polite and respectful.
Honestly, this has ALWAYS worked for me. All of my old girlfriend's families have absolutely loved me because I was polite to them and I was very, very respectful.
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2006-09-21 07:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about her mum its got nothing to do with her
2006-09-21 07:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by sizzlerfc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋