My sister & her bf have been together for 1 yr & live together. Her bf works a night shift with his ex gf's mom, my sister works a day shift somewhere else, & his ex gf works an afternoon shift at the factory beside where he works.
Her bf still talks 2 his ex gf's mom all the time, buys her coffee at work & is really friendly with her even though he doesn't date her daughter anymore. His ex gf's father passed away about a couple of weeks ago & his ex & her mom r both on compassionate leave.
My sister said that today her bf went away, so he wasn't at home when there was a phone call at noon from his ex gf's brothers phone # (by the way her bf would b sleeping). Her bf doesn't know his ex's brother, so she is wondering if his ex is calling him from her brothers house & if he is cheating on her or wants 2 get back with his ex again OR if it is the mom calling 4 something. She said that they haven't had a sex life for 3 months & everytime they try he goes limp. What do u think?
2006-09-21 08:55:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because he talks to his ex's mother, that doesn't mean that he is cheating. He has to work with this lady, so he tries to get along with her.
2006-09-21 08:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had to read this 5 times before I could understand what was going on. Okay now that Im not confused anymore lol I think that your sister should ditch her boyfriend and find someone else. I wouldn't trust a man who works with his ex's mom and still has contact with their ex. You didn't mention how long they have been together so if they have only been together less than a year than yeah definately ditch the dude for someone else
2006-09-21 09:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by Fantasy686 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is and has been cheating on her.
Your sister should get her stuff together the next time he leaves for work and move out. Be gone before he gets home. She can leave him a note saying that she is taking some time to figure out what she wants but she believes that at this time she can not trust him and does not want to be in a relationship where she doubts what he says all the time.
Now.. he may not be cheating with his ex-gf it may be with her mom!!! then again.. he may not be cheating at all. The point is... none of that really matters because at this point in time she doesn't trust what he is saying and is questioning what he does, who is talking to, etc. That enough is reason to end the relationship. She owes it to herself. She owes it to him to breakup. Nobody want to be with someone who they don't trust and no one wants to live with someone who doesn't trust them (no matter if they have or have not done anything to warrent the non-trust).
2006-09-21 09:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilty
2006-09-21 08:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by jlnunez06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that ur sister should dump him, and if he goes limp there is a big problem with that. ur sister needs to talk to her bf about it and see what he says about the issue
2006-09-21 09:06:31 · answer #5 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been cheated on...if she has a lot of suspicion that he's cheating, it's probably true. Your intuition is truthful if you listen to it!
2006-09-21 09:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Hoosier Honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uncle Vinny makes a strong argument. I second his motion.
2006-09-21 09:00:09 · answer #7 · answered by goodsamaritian99 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheatin..... some beach..... cheater cheater cheater!!!
No sex in 3 months, he goes limp..??? Cheater cheater...ex girlfriend eater.........
2006-09-21 08:58:34 · answer #8 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is getting it else where, come on, your getting calls he is limp, I think he is def getting somewhere else... has to be
2006-09-21 08:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you to should ditch the boyfriends, have oral sex with each other and the go on springer
2006-09-21 08:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋