if a girl is really not all that good in bed due to her previous experiences, would you be willing to train her?
2006-09-21 08:59:39 · 34 answers · asked by flashypsw 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
absolutely, i'm here to help. no matter how many tries and no matter how many video tapes we watch. she'll get it right. it's just practice, practice, practice and more practice.
2006-09-21 09:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being good in bed should not be a determining factor for being with someone. It's all the moments that lead to going to bed together that make a relationship special. And I think that if a guy cares for someone enough then he should be willing to as you said "train" his girl.
2006-09-21 09:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so we're talking about you, right? remember that your previous experiences are just that. previous. in the past. this is a new guy. focus on how you can be good in bed instead of how you can avoid being bad. there is no training, and there's no such thing as a born-lover either. i could help a girl be more confident in bed and let her know what i like, but as far as "training"? no. i need it to be more spontaeous than that.
2006-09-21 09:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by That Guy Drew 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Train her?
Is she a dog? A pet?
It appears that you are discussing sex as an extracurricular activity. Shame on you.
Sex should be an experience, one shared between a married man and woman. Sex is a joining of 2 bodies, becomming one. And that is called consumation.
You are taking the experience and making it an act.
2006-09-21 09:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by David S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would be willing to let her explore my body and have her watch my reactions and expressions. Some guys may find it cool to tell a woman what to do to them in bed, me I think that takes the fun out having it in the first place.
2006-09-21 09:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by wildcat06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. but training is the wrong word. I prefer educating. would like to hear what happened in your previous experiences that caused you to be bad in bed.
2006-09-21 09:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by luvtinynips 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A willing pupil always gets extra attention from the teacher
2006-09-21 09:06:21 · answer #7 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in this situation before and it all depends on how open she is about new things. If she builds the walls up saying "well, I wont do that or no I can't" then well she ain't going to improve. Now if the girl is a adventurous type and wants to learn to please me then it is all good.
2006-09-21 09:04:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being good in bed is not the reason why I would be with a girl.
2006-09-21 09:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by Nowhere Man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Exploring sexual pleasure with your lover is a wonderful, intimate, and relationship building experience. It would be fun, too.
2006-09-21 09:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by Otis F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the longer you are with someone the more you know about their likes and dislikes in the sack. If it is bad then it can only get better, hopefully.
2006-09-21 09:01:35 · answer #11 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋