I have a crush on this one guy. He is so sweet and nice. To admit it he is kind of cute also. He never gets mad and is always nice to me. there is no way we can be together. And when I say that I mean NEVER. There are two factors that will never change and we can't be togethr. I just can't stop thinking about him! What do I do?
(Before you say it NO! There is no way we can be together!)
2006-09-21 08:58:53 · 14 answers · asked by actresst22 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your feelings reflect your thoughts, so don't daydream about him or wallow in your pain- it will only reinforce him in your mind and it will be harder and harder to get him out. Anyway, renounce what you can't have and start looking for someone you can have.
2006-09-21 09:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your question then? How to stop thinking about someone? You fill your time and brain with other things. You focus on other things. You divert your attention to other things the second he comes to mind. You break the habit. You get involved in other activities. You keep busy, you do something with your time besides sittign around thinking about him. Learn a language. Take up a sport. Get a job. Get better grades. Get a hobby. Volunteer. Do something and soon you'll be too busy to think much about him.
2006-09-21 16:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where there is a will there is away sweetie. There is nothing you can do except sit back and crush on him. I mean you say there is no way then you are **** out of options. Its like your stuck in the artic with no way of getting a jacket. Hang in there tho because you'll find someone who you can be with.
2006-09-21 16:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by K@t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a similar situation so I can totally relate. You can't win in this scenario. You need to move on and find someone else. Good luck.
2006-09-21 16:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by ajy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there has to be a really good reason why you cant be together.. its either your best friends man or another girls man.. so.. never say never there might be a chance but just tell him you like him.. and if nothing progresses..then at least you kow that you gave it a shot to see if something could happen..
2006-09-21 16:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by beth-y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem a tad mentally disturbed. I would seek professional help to determine why you lack the mental capacity to know when it's time to move on. The dude is gay. He passes on the FISH because he prefers FILET.
2006-09-21 16:05:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why whats the reason you cant be together?? are you related to him or something then if you are then just forget about it!! but if your not then why cant you?? im sure you can have him..is it that his shallow but his nice to everyone but he wont go out with someone thats ugly
im just kidding
2006-09-21 17:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by channingtatumissexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL NEVER SAY NEVER, SECOND OF ALL WHY YA'LL CAN'T BE TOGETHER, I'MA NEED FOR YOU TO TELL US THE 2 FACTORS OF THIS SITUATION SO WE CAN REALLY UNDERSTAND.
2006-09-21 16:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by brownsuga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what r the two reasons and if they make sense I agree move the F on
2006-09-21 16:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess hi is married? o what what factors
2006-09-21 16:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by ella? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋