Family & Relationships - 21 September 2006

hi. i have heard the expression "toss my salad" several times. As i know of it is a sexual expression. Well what does it mean to you ?

2006-09-21 08:30:06 · 14 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother claims she was raped and claims i am the result (please don't judge me, you do not know the full sackfull of lies i've had to deal with for the last 20 years).
However, she married the man i was led to believe to be my father 6 months before i was born who incedentally thought i was his until late into her pregnancy, even then she did not mention she had been raped when it came out i was not his child and then in 1976, gave birth to my step brother.
I am a little confused as I though that woman who experienced this type of horrible act, would probably never trust another man for a very long time. Believe me when i add that my step father is not the type of person who is sympathetic, or even undertanding, and of that, when my sister in llaw opened up about her own rape, my mother did not react in the way i would of expected someone who had been through a similar thing. I would of expected her to be able to sypathise and understand, but she did not have a clue.

2006-09-21 08:29:46 · 10 answers · asked by sharon44893 1 in Family

Just curious. The gf and I have been dating for a while, long enough that the Romeo and Juliet stuff has died down and getting into the whole stage of real bf and gf stuff. Now that strong emotions are becoming apparent for each other, she is holding out sex. I know she cares for me very much and when we're together we work great as a couple. Now before anyone tells me she found someone else, don't waste our time b/c I trust her and, frankly, that's my perogative. My question is girls, if you are falling for your bf emotionally, why on Earth would you not sleep with him? Does this really happen? Any advice on solutions?

2006-09-21 08:28:51 · 28 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

My dad's brother dies today, and my sister just got fired (on her second day.) I want to do something special for them. Any ideas?

2006-09-21 08:27:58 · 6 answers · asked by Kara 3 in Family

a guy i work with who i've been told by his mates fancies me keeps sending me dirty texts discribing in detail what he'd like to do to me.twice he has done this and both times has told me the next day that he was drunk and didn't know what he was saying.do you think he feels guilty cos he's married or does he not fancy me at all.

2006-09-21 08:27:53 · 25 answers · asked by SPONGEBOB 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I dated for a year before getting married. In that year, I found pictures and videos of naked women on his computer twice. The second time was a week before our one year anniversary. I was very hurt and almost left him. He said he was sorry and could not live without me and I forgave him, but I told him that I couldn't trust him anymore...but he assured me he would not do that again and he wanted to earn my trust back, so I gave him the chance. A month later, I was pregnant and we got married. (I was on birth control). Now its two months later, and I found more pictures on his computer that he was hiding!! To me this feels like cheating. I feel like I am competeing against these sluts. It demeans me. furthermore, he pretends to be this person who is against that kind of thing. how do I get him to understand this and stop lying to me. I no longer trust him, and when I look at him, all I can see are those pics. I'm 4 months prego and need advice.

2006-09-21 08:27:50 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she is miss henrieta john gold udi, a nigerian from delta state urhobo she left nigeria when she was bearly 10years old in the year 1977 september to be precise her mother's name is mrs mary gold aseje agboroja and her father is a medical doctor from the same place. she also has a cousin named miss irine whose father was a police officer before he died. i learnt she has moved to sweden we also call that her cousin mother mama jiyunwe her elder sister is married to a white man here in nigeria who works with julius berger. the said miss henrieta in concern, is popularly known by family members here nigeria as [ata]
we the family members are really sorry for all the hill treatment she went through in the hands of her step mother and promise to show greater love such has never before. on behalf of the family am FOSTER, the younger brother whom her mother sent his photograph to sometime in 1988/89 to be precise
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2006-09-21 08:27:45 · 1 answers · asked by fostazworld247 1 in Family

I have an aunt is really hateful and mean to just about everyone.She is really selfish and mean.A neighbor of hers passed away a couple of weeks ago and she didn't go to the funeral but she went to the church after the funeral to get her something to eat,and this isn't even the first time she's done this.I really want to confront her and tell her about herself but my mother tells me to just let it go.How would you confront her,or how would you handle it?

2006-09-21 08:26:21 · 22 answers · asked by DiamondXxx 6 in Family

because my firends are alway checking her out i dont like that

2006-09-21 08:26:07 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well atleats for girls. whats going on with you guys

2006-09-21 08:25:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Grope you in public or put there hand on your as while your walking or put there hand over your shoulder and hand on your boob? when you are dating them and have asked them not too do this? I have been on dates where the guy has done this and not understood why i got mad!or worse i had a bf try to do this!

2006-09-21 08:25:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My ex boyfriend and I just broke up and I found that he'd been cheating on me for 5 months. Back then, he moved in my apartment for free since he was between jobs. I cannot believe he was saving his money to date his cheating girl. And she knows me. I do not have any nightmare of broke-up with him, but I reeeeaaally want to kill them.
I know this more makes me stupid, but some fresh air doesn't work.
Please anyone, relationship guru tell me how to get over this.

2006-09-21 08:25:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Other than church where is a good place to meet interesting, nice, honest ladies for conversation in public? I am not into the bar seen!

2006-09-21 08:25:13 · 6 answers · asked by lkk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, what is the best way to get this guy to see that I am good for him? And that he would benefit from actually committing to this relationship.......should I threaten to leave? How can i get his attention?

2006-09-21 08:25:10 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

i have (had???) a frnd,
a few months b4 we preety gud frnds,
and he used to call me up evey now n thn,
he used to tell me everythng tht used to tak place in his life,
infact even his crush vch was known only to me,
thn he started talking vth my best frnd,
thru me only,
thn he had sum serious fight with his crush and it was me who supported him,
thn sum days later proposed me,
i cudnt rep nethng,
actually i dint want to indulge in that fr now,
yet we used to talk,
i never broke my frndship with him though i knew wat he thought for me, my all other frnds told me to be away fr him but still i considered him a nice frnd
as days went by...
his freq of calls decreased,
he used call my best frn regularly but not me,
thn he told her tht he patched up with his x crush and both are going together now, he nvr told me bout it,
nd now he doesnt call neither doesnt even rep to my msg nor calls,
i rele feel bad n ngry,
u thnk he didnt understand me n my frndship? is he selfish?

2006-09-21 08:24:21 · 5 answers · asked by just yrs! 2 in Friends

2006-09-21 08:24:11 · 13 answers · asked by walkerlee06 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My childhood squirt gun just doesn't work like it used too. My wife laughed at me when I tried to soak her, I need to fix it, she promised that if I could get it to fire, I could soak her TShirt. Help me!!!

2006-09-21 08:23:29 · 36 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi,

There's this lady I'm going to meet. We'll perhaps go to a restaurant, walk around the city later on.. I'd like to bring her flowers but I'm afraid she wouldn't be happy to carry them all the evening. I know she loves silver jewelry so I've been thinking about a necklace but I'm not sure it's OK for the first date..

she's 19 if it helps

What do you suggest?

thanks for helping,
have a nice time

2006-09-21 08:23:23 · 32 answers · asked by Mr. Owl 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 08:23:04 · 10 answers · asked by Jas M 1 in Singles & Dating

I never had a one night stand but looking into it because I am 24 and I only had 3 parthers that I had relationships with, how does it feel personally what happens and do you just leave right after sex and never call eachother???

2006-09-21 08:22:43 · 18 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Singles & Dating

My parents are divorced and I see my mom every other weekend. Recently I haven't been over to her house for a while. My Dad and step mom told my brothers and I that we can go visit her once she calls. And so far she hasnt called at all. I really want to see her, but im kinda getting the feeling that she doesnt want us anymore...

2006-09-21 08:22:25 · 12 answers · asked by kayl08 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This girl is only 21 and has already had 13 lovers, mostly hook-ups with a few boyfriends in there...she also likes me to put my hand around her neck and also tell her that her body belongs to me.... I was just wondering if these are tell-tale signs that the person might not be for me..thanks!

2006-09-21 08:22:07 · 14 answers · asked by Sconeage 2 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend, about 2 months ago we had a relationship for five years. I still in love with him, sometimes he stay in my Apt to sleep and we have sex, i want to stop it because i will get more hurt.

2006-09-21 08:21:55 · 11 answers · asked by Linda 1 in Singles & Dating

Or are we not doing that anymore. If not what's a good word to replace Crunk

2006-09-21 08:21:45 · 12 answers · asked by joe 3 in Singles & Dating

if so then what were the results you got away with it , or it came back and bit you in the *** ?

2006-09-21 08:21:36 · 21 answers · asked by class07crazydude 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-21 08:21:34 · 25 answers · asked by MAMA 1 in Singles & Dating

Today this guy named Jesse who is in my Spanish class and he is a year older than me. Him and I were flirting and I mentioned my ex to my friend Devon who wants to push him down the stairs. Any way Jesse asks me who is this guy? And I say my ex and he asked why I want to do that? And I said b/c he laughed at me when I tried to be honest with him and he says your ex sounds like an ****** and I said he is. And he said if he ever sees him he will punch him in the face. Do u think he likes me?

2006-09-21 08:21:16 · 2 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

you know like when your having such a good relationship but the devil try's to **** it up ?

2006-09-21 08:20:28 · 20 answers · asked by class07crazydude 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend did ask him out for me but he said no and my friend said HE SAID SOMETHING ELSE i want to know what it was. What should i do !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-21 08:20:20 · 10 answers · asked by Rebecca D 2 in Friends

So i've been Married for 4 years and I love my wife more then anything, I do so much for her, I spoil her everyday. I give her all the Love and support that she would ever need. I allow her to follow her dreams no matter if I disagree with her. I have devoted my whole life to her. I literally treat her like a Goddess...
So for the last few months she has changed. she doesn't answer her phone alot, she is alwyas going out with her friends, she doesn't want to be close anymore, then I find out that she has cheated on me. What did I do wrong? I am not over bearing I let her do what she wants and I tell her and show her everyday how much I love her and she goes and does this? What did I do wrong???

2006-09-21 08:19:51 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce