a guy i work with who i've been told by his mates fancies me keeps sending me dirty texts discribing in detail what he'd like to do to me.twice he has done this and both times has told me the next day that he was drunk and didn't know what he was saying.do you think he feels guilty cos he's married or does he not fancy me at all.
2006-09-21 08:27:53 · 25 answers · asked by SPONGEBOB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he knows he wants you but is guilty of his situation.you have to decide if the fun is worth it.tell him what you want ,as us blokes are dumb & are in fear of you girls cos the reject is a killer
2006-09-21 08:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by David W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy and all thought I will openly say that we are all sexually driven. This guy seems a bit weird firstly hes married come on discretion man. Also what is the guy doing texting you these messages you should show as little intrest as you can, if he really does have a thing for you he should come forward. no one gets that drunk that they text **** to someone they really fancy and then remember it.
2006-09-21 15:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if he fancies you or not. His behavior is inappropriate, and if you are encouraging (or not discouraging) it, then yours is too.
If you were in a relationship, how would you feel if your guy was doing that with another chick? Treat others as you would like to be treated...don't be the other woman, unless you don't care if your guy (when you have one) has an "other woman" too.
2006-09-21 15:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is sexually harrassing you and if your boss finds out you could end up without a job. change your text number and threaten to tell his wife if he doesn't stop pestering you. he doesn't fancy you he's just getting off on the game and using you. he'll be doing it to someone else too and it may be dangerous if he's allowed to continue. what happens if he rapes you will he say he was drunk and didn't mean it. i think he actually hates women
2006-09-21 16:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's unfaithful, disrespectful... and a bit of an alcoholic it seems. Also friends ALWAYS know the truth so ask them. I'd try to keep away from him for a while till his guilt/ego/whatever dies down a little. Also if its bothering you, you could report him to your boss.
2006-09-21 16:18:01 · answer #5 · answered by Vessel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your about to jump out of the frying pan into the fire. The fact that you think about it and talk about it shows he has already gotten to you.
2006-09-21 15:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by irishlad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither.
He's giving you the chance to back off with no harm done. You should reply and tell him what you think but be honest.
2006-09-21 15:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter? He's married. Keep your hands off and tell him to stop messing about or you'll tell his wife, he can explain to her that he was drunk.
2006-09-21 15:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by Phion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you sweetie and feels guilty so plays the i was drunk card!!!
2006-09-21 15:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by dizzymooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prob guilty, but if he''s drunk when he texts you he likes you for sure (cause when your drunk your true feeling come out) hes prob just trying to see if your a s.lut whos gonna put out for his married a.ss
2006-09-21 15:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by 10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋