because my firends are alway checking her out i dont like that
2006-09-21 08:26:07 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Mom sounds like a hottie.......
2006-09-21 08:28:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's OK if your mom is in her own home, it probably makes her feel wonderful knowing she is catching and eye or two. But if it makes you uncomfortable, maybe you should tell her how you feel. I am sure she would understand.
My oldest is turning 13 and I watch what I wear when lounging around the house. I wear a bra or a robe when I know he is going to have company, but that's just me, your mother may be secure and comfortable and may not even realize she is causing you grief.... talk to her, it's the best gift you could ever give a parent.... communication!
You could always look at it this way too, at least they are checking her out and not making fun of her : )
Good luck!
2006-09-21 08:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be proud of your mom. She is very happy with herself and when she is happy, your dad is happy too. So is the rest of the family.
No matter what, your friends will always check out women who are pretty and dress like that. Around the house, it is ok. Nothing wrong with that. Outside the house it's ok too, if she is comfortable with it.
Don't forget, your mom is a woman. Women need compliments about themselves to keep them happy. It is really good for her to hear that. If she doesn't like any comments, she will speak up for herself too. Don't worry about your friends though, they will just envy you and you should be happy about that.
2006-09-21 08:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can't say I would cuz I was in the same situation and didn't say anything to her but I talked to my boyfriend about it to see what I should do he told me not to worry about it cuz he didn't look at her like that I don't know if that was a good thing or not but if you got the courage talk to her andsee maybe that's all you need to do. and the problem will be solved other wise I don't no what to say but stop bringing your friends around her. Hope this helps a least a little
2006-09-21 08:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should be able to wear what she wants in her house,if she wears clothing that is inappropriate for when you have friends over then you can only say something about it to her.she is dressing sexy for a reason,and if the guys are checking her out she sees that ,if it bothers her then she will dress different,if she likes the attention but you cant handle it then dont have the guys over.just remember it is her house,,so she can do what she likes
2006-09-21 14:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by hekler1873 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she enjoys the attention and it makes her horny to be looked at and checked out by your friends. Some women fantasize about having sex with younger guys and they masturbate thinking about it. Its fine if she dresses sexy around the house. I am sure she enjoys turning your friends on and they like it too.
2006-09-21 08:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by orygunduk1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My mom was the same way, I hated it! She has these really big fake boobs and she would wear these little bitty tank tops! When I was a kid we'd be in the grocery store and men would oogle her big time! Me being a kid, it bothered me, so usually I would yell at them to stop looking at my moms boobs!! So I totally feel you! Once I got older, I got over it! My mom is my mom and she'd not going to change! She still like showing off them things!
2006-09-21 08:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
absolutley not, hon! yr mother needs to realize that she is not a teen and must act as an adult by dressing appropriately! Her attire should be worn in a way that reflects a positive image. If yr friends see yr mother as some kind of milf then shame on them! Tell yr mother that her way of presenting herself also represents you and you dont want word getting around to yr school about her jejune behavior.
2006-09-21 08:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is her house. My Husband walks around in his underwear. That's really embarrassing. Just ask her to tone it down a little when your friends are there.Like put on a big T-Shirt over that hoochie outfit.
2006-09-21 08:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by joy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just because she is your mother doesn't mean she is no longer a woman. She is in her own home. You can tell her how you feel, but it is nothing to get upset over. It could be worse! She could be HUGE and they could be staring at her for a whole other reason.
2006-09-21 08:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Kevin I will take care of this. Give me your Moms cell number and I will have a stern talk with her. I might come over and do it. Will you wait outside for 30 minutes while we chat?
2006-09-21 08:27:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋