I broke up with my ex-boyfriend, about 2 months ago we had a relationship for five years. I still in love with him, sometimes he stay in my Apt to sleep and we have sex, i want to stop it because i will get more hurt.
2006-09-21 08:21:55 · 11 answers · asked by Linda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's an easy habit to fall into...especially if you still have feelings...it's easy cause you are used to each other...but...in the end it's NOT GOOD to do that...you get hurt worse than you already are...and ?...you aren't moving on as you should be...to someone who will be much better for you. Remember the reason you broke up?...you do? Then move on ...
2006-09-21 08:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just hurting yourself. It looks like you know what you're doing but you just can't stop. The best advice you could ever get:
At first, try to ignore the calls. If that's too hard then answer the phone and talk to him but do not invite him over. Try to keep it short when you are conversing. This is going to hurt, but you have to do it for yourself. He might as well be just as confused, so if he asks let him know it's hurting you and you can't do that anymore. OR he might just be using you for your body. You're too good for that, and don't let him tell you any different. Especially if you guys aren't trying to work things out. It'll be better in the long run. Sorry you're going through it.
2006-09-21 15:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by auniquekind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u still in love with your ex-boyfriend why did u break up with him and also he stay in ur apartment and have sex that means the fire is still there between u guys and i'm sure he dosen't see the relationship is over because u still let him in, if u want it to stop please don't let him in and have less to with him and eventually
it will stop. I Know what u going thru cause i have been there already.
2006-09-21 15:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by brownsugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done this with a few of my ex's and it never turn out! It makes it harder to let go for one thing. Also I would start thinking maybe he wants me back, or he still loves me, etc... When in fact all I was to him at that point was a piece of ***! I say move on to better things! You can't move forward if your living in the past!
2006-09-21 15:26:47 · answer #4 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu like the sex that you have with him. Theres notheing wrong with that. There are alot of divorced couples that still get together for sex even though they don't agree on alot of things, they like the physical pleasure.
2006-09-21 15:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by orygunduk1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then your not broke up, your still sleeping with him... thats not broke up, maybe if you realize that all he wants you for is sex then you might move on and forget about it, cause if u guys are only having sex then maybe you should re-evaluate your relationship, cause you aren't single
2006-09-21 15:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell are you stupid leave him he is just using u as a booty-call until him can find another girl ok and sorry about that in the begining and yes this is coming from a 13 year old
2006-09-22 16:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by If I Were A Boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't have sex with him. Why did you break up with him in the first place?
2006-09-21 15:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will get hurt if you are still in love and he is just fu*****.....I have slept with an ex but it was just a booty call.....if you are still in love then don't do it.
2006-09-21 15:25:03 · answer #9 · answered by silver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might.. Hard to say.. If I was dating someone then definetly not.
2006-09-21 15:23:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋