My parents are divorced and I see my mom every other weekend. Recently I haven't been over to her house for a while. My Dad and step mom told my brothers and I that we can go visit her once she calls. And so far she hasnt called at all. I really want to see her, but im kinda getting the feeling that she doesnt want us anymore...
2006-09-21 08:22:25 · 12 answers · asked by kayl08 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
CALL HER, If the phone call turns out to be a problem then deal with that. In the meantime don't let stubborness decide the issue.
2006-09-21 08:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Potcake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, its not that at all. Sometimes its hard to see the children we've lost for one reason or another. I both love and hate the days that i see mine. It's so sad to part from them. I sometimes forget to call my children too. But your always on our minds. Not having your children with u close, is the hardest thing a woman could ever have to go through. I used to cover up my sadness with alchohol, and then be too drunk to see them when the time came. Your mother loves u. Don't ever think any different. Sometimes life just isnt what u would want it to be. Ask u'r dad if u can call her. she probably would love hearing from u.
2006-09-21 15:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by penelope 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should never talk like that! Your mom love's you. She's probably really broken up about the divorce. Maybe she needs help. You should call her. My parent's are going to split- I know how it feels. I feel like it's all my fault- but I'm trying to get over that. I've also pretty much self-diagnosed myself with a mental condition. I'm trying to get over that too. Your mom loves you. Need a friend? klemarbe@yahoo.com is my email. Send me a note!
2006-09-21 15:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your mother would have to arrange the time in advance per law with your father. the courts will typically allow certain hours per week or month depending on the result of the divorce settlement. It could also be that the courts would prohibit her from calling direct.
2006-09-21 15:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by edna_romano_1943 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to call her? Will they allow you to call her? Perhaps you can call her from school or a friends house in confidence?
Maybe there is a problem.
2006-09-21 15:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never believe that, maybe Mom needs time to get her s*it together
maybe isn't feeling like shes the best Mom right now
mom might be thinking your in the best place you can be right now
2006-09-21 15:27:38 · answer #6 · answered by janice28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nooooo, don't feel that way!!! Your mother loves you unconditionally, till the day she dies. You should be able to call your own mother when you want to, not just when she calls you. I don't know ur age but everytime I think about my mother I'm on that phone if only to say hello. Call your mother & go see her!!!
2006-09-21 15:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by caddidaddy04 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there was anyone in you place, he/she would have such thoughts..dont get worried..relax..and call your mom and clear things up..dont keep things inside you ..it only increases more problems..if you are unable to talk to her you and your brothers can also talk to your dad....Best of luck..hope everything works out..best wishes again.
2006-09-21 15:29:41 · answer #8 · answered by homosapien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a real possibility. Not everyone was cut out to be a parent.
2006-09-21 15:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
But you go and meet her.
2006-09-21 15:26:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋