My ex boyfriend and I just broke up and I found that he'd been cheating on me for 5 months. Back then, he moved in my apartment for free since he was between jobs. I cannot believe he was saving his money to date his cheating girl. And she knows me. I do not have any nightmare of broke-up with him, but I reeeeaaally want to kill them.
I know this more makes me stupid, but some fresh air doesn't work.
Please anyone, relationship guru tell me how to get over this.
2006-09-21 08:25:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
One of the best quotes i have ever heard... "No person is worth your tears and the one who is wont make you cry." i know exactly what your going through and all i can say is that with time you are going to ask your self why did i let him get to me so much... let him and it go... trust me it is for the best! Also she is not worth your time!
2006-09-21 08:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 17:01:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationship guru? is that a profession?
Anyway, theres not secret way to get over a heart break, everyone is different...only time will help you heal...just dont waste too many brain time thinking about him cause hes not thinking about you. Don't go doing something stupid like hurt one of them or damage any property cause that wont change the fact that he was an @ss and cheated.
Learn from this experience and good luck!
2006-09-21 08:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut your ties with him and move on. It's all you can do. It sucks - no one likes being taken advantage of - but the worst thing you can do is let this loser continue to take up anymore of your life. Find a hobby or something to occupy your mind. It will take time, but you'll feel better before you know it. good luck!
2006-09-21 08:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by Shelley L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing that helpped me the most.... Remove EVERYTHING that reminds you of him, pictures, letters, clothing, phone numbers etc. If all of it and him are out of sight then its all out of mind (out of sight, out of mind). Next stay as busy as possible to keep your mind off of him, dont sit around and dwell on the situation, it sets you back alot. Meet as many new people as possible and before you know it two or three months go by and your over him and have moved on. Good luck.
2006-09-21 08:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all living 4 free???this should be a clue...don't destroy personal property. These people will get theres in the long run karma ya know w/any luck she'll do it to him
2006-09-21 08:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by carmella.2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationship guru? to recover your relationship? it does not worth it. Try new interesting hobbies specific sports, and forget him and u have fresh life ahead of you and many interesting people to meet.
2006-09-21 08:55:48 · answer #7 · answered by essa s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not worth your space and time, ignore them, it says more about the type of selfish person he is than you, this type always treat women rough they are out for themselves. Feel sorry of anyone who gets him. I know you feel angry and hurt but its best to forgive, he is not worth you precious time being angry move on and change your taste in men. take care God loves you, you are special.
2006-09-21 08:41:20 · answer #8 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time my dear...time will get you over it......many moons ago I dated a man for over a year....one night found he was dating another woman the entire time too...and he married her....hurt me more than anything...I felt used and rejected....but today....I look back and see.....he wasn't worth my tears...
2006-09-21 08:31:23 · answer #9 · answered by DoveMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time.
there's no directions on how to get over someone, i'm sorry. Maybe you should document your progess and then write a book called "directions: how to get over that punk" and make millions off it. i think that's a good way to get over it!
2006-09-21 08:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by highc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋