Grope you in public or put there hand on your as while your walking or put there hand over your shoulder and hand on your boob? when you are dating them and have asked them not too do this? I have been on dates where the guy has done this and not understood why i got mad!or worse i had a bf try to do this!
2006-09-21 08:25:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I get really embarrassed when this is done
2006-09-21 08:26:21 · update #1
esecially if my parents are there
2006-09-21 08:27:13 · update #2
not a prude just dont like to feel like i am being malested
2006-09-21 08:30:22 · update #3
because they CAN do it.
2006-09-21 08:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an immature attempt at PDA. I assure you it's not meant as a insult, but it is intended as an expression of comfort, sexual attraction and happiness.
You simply need to redirect it. Talk to your man (ALONE) and tell him that if he wants to show a public display of affection, where you like to be held in public (around the waist, your hand, stroking your arm, whatever you like) and little kisses or whatever. Tell him that it hurts your feelings, is embarrasing and you feel that it's disrespectful to touch you the other way in public.
I swear. I had a girl break up with me over this, and I was shocked. [duh] Remember, once you tell him, if he doesn't stop, then he's just being disrespectful. But I sure wish that girl had talked to me about it first.
2006-09-21 15:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by Jerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men think that it makes them look like the big guy when he can grope his girl in public. He doesn't know that he is making an *** out of himself
2006-09-21 15:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by Boogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people don't respect boundaries or understand what boundaries are. If you say no and they don't stop, drop them no matter how cute they are or how attracted you are to them. These type will not respect you for who you are or what YOU want. They're just into themselves.
2006-09-21 15:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by pj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your man or I should say boy is an immature pig that doesn't respect you.
When he becomes a man, maybe he will learn how to respect woman.
Next time he does this either slap him or ask him why he doesn't respect you. Say it loud enough so he gets embarrassed for a change.
2006-09-21 15:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to be happy he finds you attractive
if he wasn't groping you then you should wonder and complain (I bet you would too) cause he does not fancy your looks
there is a time and place, just put him in his place
2006-09-21 15:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys always try to get fresh with girls, it's like testing the waters! And a guy does this to his girlfriend, because he is telling her and everyone else that she belongs to him!
2006-09-21 15:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what they are doing is disrespecting you in public. Next time it happens, give him a good slap on his face so that he is disrespected and embarrassed...see how he likes it!
2006-09-21 15:36:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that guys do it to try and show that they like you. If you tell a guy that you don't like it, he should definetly not do it. There is a time and a place for these types of things.
2006-09-21 15:28:28 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop dating frat boys.
2006-09-21 15:37:12 · answer #10 · answered by Shelley L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just hasnt found the right one. When my mom around my bf just stare.
2006-09-21 15:29:24 · answer #11 · answered by Kineshia J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋