This girl is only 21 and has already had 13 lovers, mostly hook-ups with a few boyfriends in there...she also likes me to put my hand around her neck and also tell her that her body belongs to me.... I was just wondering if these are tell-tale signs that the person might not be for me..thanks!
2006-09-21 08:22:07 · 14 answers · asked by Sconeage 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i had alot of partners and my huband was not too thrilled when he found out. (when we first started dating) BUT - whats done is done. it doesnt make me a bad person because i slept with alot of guys. and it doesnt make her a bad person either.
2006-09-21 08:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by mml619 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has always been my belief that whatever two consenting adults do in the privacy of their home is their business. However, if you are at all concerned about what someone wants to do with you, then it is not a good thing. You must be comfortable with all aspects of the act. It sounds as if you do have some reservations about her history and her desires, so I would suggest taking a step back and really thinking about a relationship with her.
2006-09-21 15:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by koffee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that she told u the number is probably a good sign... she has good morals in the fact that she didn't lie to u about it. also, doesn't it make you happy that she likes the fact that her body belongs to you?? a person with lesser moral values might date u and let her body belong to someone else... i think her heart is in the right place
ps whats your number & how old are you??
2006-09-21 15:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can live with it then go for it. Leave the past behind you/her and don't ask about it in detail. That is only asking for trouble. Also she knows what she likes/wants/turns her on so that is why she tells you that stuff. Go with it or don't it's your choice. I think it would be a good thing. At least she is honest with you.
2006-09-21 15:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with sexual exploration when you have two people who consent to it. When two adults consent to it, then anything is possible in a sexual relationship. This keeps things fresh and it will last much longer than most relationships will.
What makes this morally wrong is when one believes that what they want to explore sexually is wrong in some way to endanger human life.
2006-09-21 15:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that her past amount of lovers should concern you at all. They were in the past, leave it there. Everyone has different things that turn them on, it has no reflection on morals.
2006-09-21 15:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea its A LOT of people that she has been with but like guys say they want a freak in the sheets and a lady on the streets it just means they want someone that wants to do freaky things in bed but they also what a lady that wont act like a hoe in public just only with you !!
2006-09-21 15:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by mija~chula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking for love in all the wrong places, the song says.
2006-09-21 15:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um yes......she has had alot of lovers for her age, wanting to do strange or different things in bed doesn't make you bad, if you don't like it then don't do it.........
2006-09-21 15:24:03 · answer #9 · answered by silver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it does reflect in their morals---and be sure to have std testing and aids testing as well
2006-09-21 15:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋