ne reason...? is he rele selfish as my other frnds call him? did he ever evn considered me a frnd?????????????

Question

i have (had???) a frnd,
a few months b4 we preety gud frnds,
and he used to call me up evey now n thn,
he used to tell me everythng tht used to tak place in his life,
infact even his crush vch was known only to me,
thn he started talking vth my best frnd,
thru me only,
thn he had sum serious fight with his crush and it was me who supported him,
thn sum days later proposed me,
i cudnt rep nethng,
actually i dint want to indulge in that fr now,
yet we used to talk,
i never broke my frndship with him though i knew wat he thought for me, my all other frnds told me to be away fr him but still i considered him a nice frnd
as days went by...
his freq of calls decreased,
he used call my best frn regularly but not me,
thn he told her tht he patched up with his x crush and both are going together now, he nvr told me bout it,
nd now he doesnt call neither doesnt even rep to my msg nor calls,
i rele feel bad n ngry,
u thnk he didnt understand me n my frndship? is he selfish?

we had once promised tht we wud tell each other first if ever we get along with some one....but i got his news fr my best frnd and still after tht till date he hasnt made a effort to ring me up and tell me.....i felt worst at this moment....

i want to make him realize tht he is wrong and he has hurt me....

Answer 1

With all your mis-spellings, I can't understand your question.

Answer 2

Selfish friends will also be bad boys too. They can only play for themselves and bring others down to their level with pity parties of their own.

A truly genuine friend is hard to find. In fact, 99% of everyone out there is just out for themselves and or for money. I know, hard to believe, but those are the facts.

Genuine people will never ask for anything from you in terms of material wants and needs because they can easily get that for themselves without asking you. They tend to be the types who just want the very best for you and only want you to be happy no matter what. They just want to share their lives and their experiences with you and grow as individuals and as a couple with you.

Anything less then genuine friendships shouldn't be tolerated at all.

Answer 3

People who are like that can only hurt you. Don't worry about him. He'll come back. In the meantime ask around to find out what other people know about his thoughts on your relationship. Gossip helps me through situations.

Answer 4

learn how to spell in proper english, and you might get better responses.

Answer 5

maybe he didn't understand you because you can't spell!