i have a few friends at school, and sometimes they are really nice to me and we eat lunch together and stuff, but some days they just totally ignore me and act like we've never met. this one girl that i'm good friends with is nice to me when it is just me and her, but when her other friends are around, she just ditches me for them.its hard for me to make friends and i feel left out a lot. what should i do?
2006-09-21 08:58:26 · 8 answers · asked by LLAMA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-09-21 09:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just the way it is. When I was in school it was the same way and I wasn't in school for many years some things never change. Look around and see if there is anyone else that seems to feel left out and hook up with them, let that other girl see you don't need her and if she really don't want to loose your friendship she will talk to you, and if she don't ,then she is not worth you worrying about, she's not the only girl on the planet.
2006-09-21 16:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by Luv79t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your own best friend. Learn to love yourself enough, that it won't matter if whoever disses u. Go on and act as if u could give a rats behind, and the next time her friends aren't around, and whe wants to associate with you , tell her to F OFF. In this society of ours friends are hard to come by, and when you find a true friend, they'll last a lifetime
2006-09-21 16:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I feel the same way. And it is hard. Just talk to them about it and see what they say. And as hard as it sounds if they are not willing to change get some new friends. It may be hard at first but i know that you can find someone that will be nice to you!
2006-09-21 16:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by actresst22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people are nice to me ! maybe you need new friends or a little self reflection
stand in front of a mirror and think why would people like me - but also look at your 'friends' and think why should i like them - you may see things in a new way
never forget that the friends you choose are a reflection of yourself !
2006-09-21 16:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just treat her like you find her, if she speaks, then speak, if not don't worry about her. join some clubs, and just keep busy, and work on getting good grades, Just work on being the nicest person, to yourself, if they like you , then they like you, if not, that is their problem. You are going to be alright, just hang in their.
2006-09-21 16:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when girlz are around theres drama(speak from experience) don't let it get to you. u'll make more friends and maybe you'll do what she does to u
2006-09-21 16:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by shortcake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose your friends.
2006-09-21 16:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by ash 7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋