2006-09-21 09:04:30 · 22 answers · asked by destiny12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to figure out why you got married to this guy if he wasnt your soul mate. And why is this other guy your soulmate? Do you just feel like this other guy can give you more than your husband, that he can treat you better and that you two would be much happier together. Why did you and your "soulmate" break up in the first place. To me it sounds like you and your now husband might be running into some problems, nothing major but enough that you are having second doubts. You need to remember the time you had with your ex and figure out what went wrong and remember that if you make a choice to leave your husband there is still that chance your ex and you will not make it. It didnt work out before why would it this time. You need to remember why you got married in to your husband and find that love you have for him. Work on your problems and if you still believe no matter what your marraige has to end than just seperate for now, tell him you need to have some time to think. And once your away from him for a while your heart will tell you who you really belong with.
2006-09-21 09:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up!!! What is wrong with people!! You made your decision on this when you said I do..or did you miss the 'til death do you part' thing. I'm pretty sure there was nothing in your vows that mentions being faithful until an ex showed up. How would you feel if your husband did this to you??? You don't 'love' your ex, you don't have a life with your ex and if he was your 'soulmate' (which is a really stupid concept anyway) he wouldn't be an ex...nothing could have kept you apart if that was true. You are just deluding yourself to avoid actually doing the work it takes to make a marrige work.
2006-09-21 09:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's unimaginable that you would marry someone who is not your soulmate. What were you thinking? What you have done is bad for at least 4 people, and more if children are involved: you, your husband, your ex, and your ex's spouse (current or future).
Still, you have made your bed and now you must lie in it. You must cut off all contact with your ex, throw away all pictures of him, letters from him, etc. Dedicate yourself to your husband and teach yourself why HE is your true soulmate.
2006-09-21 09:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, I have two questios from you. 1. if you had soulmat and also loved him, why you married your husband ...? 2. and when you love your husband, how can you say , you love your EX ?
2006-09-21 09:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by mrktk44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best advice i can give you is get a divorce i cannot believe this. You are hurting your husband you now you so if you love your ex so much why did you marry your husband? i hope everything works out for you...
2006-09-21 09:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didnt know that was possible... how do you love one person, and love another? sweetie, you need to pic one. why is you ex, your ex? why did you breakup if he was you soulmate? and why did you get married if you still had feelings for you ex? does your ex feel the same way about you? i hope your not cheating on your hubby.... maybe you should talk it out with your husband, and why would you marry someone whos not you soulmate? who does that?
2006-09-21 09:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by orlo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I, for one, am not going to judge you. You really need to sit down and have a heart to heart with your husband. You need to remember why you and your ex didn't work and remember why you married your husband. I believe you can love more than one person... I also believe you can love someone and not be with them.
2006-09-21 09:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatchu talkin about, Willis? Soulmate? Why did you break up with husband number 1?
2006-09-21 09:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really have a problem. it sounds like you married too soon. your new husband is suppose to be your soulmate, and you should have been over your first husband before you married a second.
2006-09-21 09:07:15 · answer #9 · answered by Cutie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love your "soul-mate," why did you marry your husband? You MUST examine your feelings and determine who you want to be with the rest of your life. Is there something missing in your current marriage that you had with your "soul mate?" Everyone is different, and what you find in one person you will not find in the other.
If you are not happy with your marriage and feel so strong about your "soul-mate" you should really and carefully look into it.
Good luck!
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2006-09-21 09:08:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋