We've been dating for 3 months. Things are going well. I'm 27 and know what I'm looking for - and that she's it. Should I just go for it?
2006-09-21 09:03:53 · 31 answers · asked by Johnny Onomatopoeia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her. My guess? She loves you too.
2006-09-21 09:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure if she loves you she would love to hear it from you right now! There is never the "right moment" I think, it's whenever you feel that you love that person you should tell them, there are some people who wait to long and sometimes that might turn out bad, so if i were you i would tell her asap... I'm sure you guys will connect in a deeper level after you guys tell each other how you really feel.
2006-09-21 09:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by cremedelacreme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The average first time a guy says "I love you" is right after three months of dating. I think it is about time for you to tell her, but don't make it casual, those words mean a lot to women. My former boyfriend said those words like they were nothing, and that really made me sad. If this is a serious relationship, don't do what he did. Good Luck!!!
Kimberly
2006-09-21 09:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by aeronpink13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...I don't think I could have gone three months without saying it - or hearing it from the other person!
Since you are certain of your feelings, and it sounds like you think she won't freak out hearing it (things are going well), I'd say the time is ripe to say it. Just make sure to look her in the eyes when you say it. I don't care how painfully shy you are the rest of the time - if you're looking away, she will probably think you don't mean it!
2006-09-21 09:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to a nice romantic dinner and tell her right before you say goodbye and kiss her oh by the way I Love you!
Aww that would be sooo romantic and I'm sure your G/F will fall all over you.
GOod Luck sweetie!
2006-09-21 09:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by Pretty me :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would make sure all the conditions are absolutely right - is she sending out positive vibes? you may scare her off with the "L" word - you may want to say that you care deeply for her at first - see how she reacts - also actions speak louder than words - hopefully you're backing up these feelings with positive actions towards her - 3 months is still the early stage for a relationship.
2006-09-21 09:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to waste anytime! If you love her tell her! We aren't guaranteed tommorow, all we have is the moment that we are in right now! I have lost many people in my life and never got the chance to tell them how I really felt! I learned that I have to tell the people that I love just how much they mean to me!!
GO FOR IT!
2006-09-21 09:06:32 · answer #7 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should wait for her to say it first. If you tell her that you're in love, and she doesn't feel the same, it might freak her out.
There has got to be a reason why she hasn't said anything by now.
2006-09-21 09:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you know what your saying, say it. Just make sure your getting the relationship vibe from her. Some women will freak if you tell them you love them, some will be so happy they could die. Just depends on which your girlfriend is.
2006-09-21 09:06:46 · answer #9 · answered by lunitari601 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her when you mean it!
Go watch My Best Friend's Wedding and listen to the part where Michael and Julianne are on the riverboat tour talking about Kimmy.
"When you love someone, you should say it. Right then. Out loud."
I agree!
2006-09-21 09:05:58 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SIT DOWN AND HAVE AN IMPORTANT CONVO. WITH HER AND TELL HER
"....listen u are d most important person in my life...your d reason why i look forward to waking up every day and i just wanted to tell you that i love you and i will never stop loving you despite what..."
SHE WILL FEEL REALLY APPRECIATED ANYWAYS THATS WHAT MY BF TOLD ME AND TODAY WE R STILL GOING STRONG. NOW I CUD DO WITH DE 10PTS FOR BES ANSWER THANKZ
2006-09-21 09:13:53 · answer #11 · answered by Innocence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋