He and I have been going out for a little over 2 months, and I just don't like him like that anymore. I'm starting to like other guys, and I don't think I should stay with him. Any advice?
2006-09-21 08:54:16 · 27 answers · asked by Jen A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be honest and straight up. Like that girl said, play that Chris Brown song: Say goodbye, its perfect in your situation. But honesty is the best way to go. Its not too late since you have only been together for two months, less heartbreak. Thats pretty cool your not stringing him along though and you realize you need to get out of it, most girls would just cheat on the poor dude.
2006-09-21 09:04:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only been 2 months, so unless you've professed your love and he's expecting a great relationship with you, he should be able to just take it like a man. IF he's into the relationship a little more than you, I would try the old "Its me, not you" line; this way you can try to let him down by making him think it isn't his fault.
2006-09-21 15:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll I'm going to guess you are under 18 so I'll tell ya...
no one your age should have a steady boyfriend to start with. True its fun to have someone to see everyday at school and there is the prestige thing that goes with it, but really you should be casually dating a lot of guys (not SLEEPING with them - well not ALL of them if that is something you choose to do) just going out to see what you like in them and what you don't... and finding out about yourself and everything.
The best way to tell him is face to face (no phone, im, email, text) and say you would like to no longer be exclusive and would like to start dating other guys. Its pretty simple.. chances are he is thinking the same thing. but be honest - don't wimp out - and just do it!
2006-09-21 16:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on why you liked him and why you dont like him now.You say you like other guys,... well may be ur personal life is not getting satisfied, you may consult a specialist for th8.
And if you really just want to ditch him.... use the reason which makes u dislike him.... tell him frankly to come to your terms immediately or you prefer to leave him.
If you are not able to do th8 then is it th8 u love him?
2006-09-21 16:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by scholar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be in a different relationship, check out the other guys, and if you find one that you like better than your current one, and he wants to date you, see how that will work out b4 you dump your current bf. That way you can still have fun without feeling like a jerk or feeling like your a skank by "somehow cheeting" on your bf. break up with him if you don't like him anymore. Why keep him in the dark? goodluck
2006-09-21 15:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by Cyber Spacer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how ya feel and just tell him that you used to like him buty now you've changed yo mind and that ya like other boys and that yu might cheat on him of u continue the relationship and u jes dont want to hurt him.U dont wanna be unfaithful
2006-09-21 15:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Phat Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When making this kind of decision, I always put myself in the other person's place. I would always want the other person to be honest with me.
Definitely be honest and tell him the relationship isn't working and you are interested in dating other guys.
2006-09-21 16:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by coyote 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel nothing there..then just say.. listen i like you alot but my feelings for you are leading towards friendship. can ew be friends instead of b/b and g/f? just say that and if he doesnt want to be friends with you then just be like well i dont want to be with you anymore.. its only two months. and justbe blunt and say i dont have those feeling for you anymore.. he's a guy he'll get over it. you'll be surprised
2006-09-21 15:59:46 · answer #8 · answered by beth-y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut it off now, clean and quick! don't string him along with "wanting to work it out" or "just be freinds." Hurting him a little now will save a lot of heartache for the both of you later.
2006-09-21 15:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by orphanannie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in this situation about twice. you have to end it. right then and there. do not keep it going because you'll be leading him on which is what you don;t want to do.arrange a place to meet him, DO not have him pick you up because will you want to drive with your ex? obviously not. meet him somewhere like starbucks and have coffee. it's quiet but not too quiet so there can't be a nasty exhange of words.
good luck.
2006-09-21 15:58:19 · answer #10 · answered by Frankel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋