Family & Relationships - 17 September 2006

their is someone at work who really pisses me off, she is funny but she likes to puch others an poke them in the ribs hard as a joke, i dont want to get mad at her, or send her to the office, the i need to find a funny way to get her back to the point that she all so knows that ive had enough, im a nurse so i cant be to nasty to her, but she has to b put in her place, i love to laugh an joke, can anyone think of anything i can say, so that it wont come back on me

2006-09-17 04:36:32 · 12 answers · asked by louise 3 in Friends

I am going round and round with my 16 year old about chores. He gets to go somewhere every weekend. Sometimes hes gone all weekend. he doesn't feel he should have to do very much around the house cause we don't ask his brother to do alot of chores. However, my youngest son takes a 7th period at school and is involved in NJROTC. He (my youngest) doesn't even get home til around 5:00 ( their day starts at 6:00am). I have Josh do smaller things that take less time. I feel my youngest works harder acedemically. My oldest doesn't want to do any after school activities and gets home around 2:00. So, thats why he has more day to day chores than his brother. Am I wrong?

2006-09-17 04:36:25 · 23 answers · asked by shugabam! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay..I sorta have a boyfriend but nt really he considers us to go out but not like seriously the only time we do anything together is bascally to have sex becasue he tells me if we didnt i would be a waste of a body? Would it be bad to see other people while "going out" with him?

2006-09-17 04:35:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy just start sending messages and calling my girlfriend, she tells me that he is just a good friend and I belive her, but is the guys looking at my girlfriend the same way, as a friend or is he looking for semething else?

2006-09-17 04:34:59 · 7 answers · asked by bullseye 1 in Singles & Dating

I have known a guy for going on almost seven years now and hes wonderful. We both get caught up in our lives and sometimes will go a year at a time without really speaking. He has been nothing but patient with me and has asked me to move in with him many times over the years. I cant even bring myself to seeing him face to face becasue im afraid of getting into something that wont last. Seven years is a long time to wait for someone. I got scared because I basically cheated on him once and got pregnant and ran away from my troubles, but ended up having a miscarry, and am now living with a guy i barely know as a roomate and doesnt even pay his half of rent as promised.

I have been asked to move in with him again but Im scared to move on. I expect nothing but patience but I think iv dragged it on too long. Does anyone have any advice for my stupid A$$?

2006-09-17 04:34:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He's lazy,drinks too much and I worry that my children have no proper role model. He came back from having a pint just now and was very rude and hurtful and I'm really miserable - what should I do? Every time I tell him to leave he comes back a day or 2 later and we carry on again, living a lie so I don't upset my children.

2006-09-17 04:33:24 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-17 04:33:12 · 8 answers · asked by Karalan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend has a problem with a sister, who is constantly harrassing her. She is very rude to her, they argue then the sister who is rude speaks to my friend by this time friend has forgiven her. And the abuse continues again. She is now considering ignoring this sister completely, and telling her sister this as well, That they only comunicate by letter. Now if my friend sticks to these boundaries will it work and how long will this loony sister get the message and change her ways or even learn to respect my friend like my friend respects her.

2006-09-17 04:32:39 · 3 answers · asked by nicecupofteanicecupofcoffee 2 in Friends

2006-09-17 04:31:57 · 18 answers · asked by gal in confusion 1 in Singles & Dating

she stays with me acouple times a week she lives in a basement suite at her childhoo sweathearts house he is gone two weeks at atime then home for a week she says their is nothing going on.she loves him aas abrother . she looks after his house while he is gone but im not alowed their for what reason im not sure..we have agood sex life but i dont know what else is going on how could i tell if she is lying to me it is possible their is nothing going on between them is that possible

2006-09-17 04:27:57 · 29 answers · asked by troubled 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-17 04:27:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-17 04:27:37 · 22 answers · asked by sally b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im asian, and i adore this jewish girl in my math class. I really like me and she likes me too. But im afraid to date her because my parents might not let me date anyone thats not my race.

Should i listen to my parents?

2006-09-17 04:26:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 04:25:29 · 13 answers · asked by life_time 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my boyfriend for a year, I was with my daughter's dad for 8 yrs. I'm unsure who I want to be with. My boyfriend has 3 kids from 3 different ladies, so there's a lot of trust issues and baby mama drama. I still love my ex as well.Should I tell my daughter's dad that I moved on. Should I try to make the family thing work again and leave my boyfriend alone? I am so confused. One day I want to be a family again, the next I'm enjoying myself with my man. I left my daughter's dad because he didn't appreciate me. I'm scared if I go back it will be the same. Can I get some advice???

2006-09-17 04:25:07 · 12 answers · asked by special k 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

hes my best friend and we have known each other a long time. we do alot of stuff together. my mom loves him and he ever calls her mom!.... sometimes it kinda seems like he likes me to from some of the stuff he has like sent in a message. i like him so much but i dont want to tell him that because what if h doesnt like me like that??...then our whole relashionship would be pretty ruined!! i talked to him last night and he asked what ive been doing lately and i said nothin much just school,running, and tanning for homecmoing!...and he's says ohh really who are u goin with?... and i said no one and then he says hmm ell im not goin with anyone either!!.... we dont go to the same school so im not sure what to do! i dont want to ask him and then make a fool of my self if he says no!!... and if i do ask him how should i ask him?..... i want to ask him in a cute way... HELP!!!!!!!

2006-09-17 04:24:52 · 7 answers · asked by poptart26 1 in Friends

on your wedding day? why

2006-09-17 04:23:51 · 10 answers · asked by j 1 in Weddings

One of my friends is going to ask his girlfriend to marry him. Anyway, he's been brainstorming for ideas. Now his girlfriend really loves riddles, so would it be lame or romantic if he somehow asked her to marry him in a riddle?

2006-09-17 04:23:36 · 24 answers · asked by horrorfan 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-17 04:23:25 · 8 answers · asked by curious 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my friend/nieghbor has this annoying brother and he is in love with me and he trys kissing me and it annoys me he does what a 20 year old would do and hes only 10 and when his friends spend the night he hits on me and he wonders why i dont want to hang with him i mean its nice to know that im pretty what do i do he keeps asking me out help

2006-09-17 04:22:10 · 12 answers · asked by cierraslove 2 in Singles & Dating

my aunt did this and i was wondering she wrote who it was from and the adress on the tag that came with the gift bag.

2006-09-17 04:20:57 · 17 answers · asked by j 1 in Weddings

Does it mean he is good or bad ? How can I know if the lawyer is good for my divorce case ?

2006-09-17 04:20:02 · 9 answers · asked by gshock 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-17 04:18:56 · 40 answers · asked by sally b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've talked it over with both my hubby and his mom, but she doesn't get it. She said she would stop but then 2 weeks later he has a new one and told me his mom gave it to him when she knew i wasn't around.She even gave them to him when I was pregant as if I didn't feel good enough about my body being pregant! who's wrong?

2006-09-17 04:18:54 · 19 answers · asked by jojo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

someone broke into my car and stole all my cds. i must of had $400 worth or cd's and they are not covered by insurance because they consider it personal property.

I hate theives!

2006-09-17 04:16:02 · 18 answers · asked by hippieiam29 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so Ive been married almost 2 years. I really care about the person im married to . I love him even. And I knew before I got married that it wouldnt be a fairy tale. I dont expect that. We've had ups and downs. But something is missing. And Its my bed, Im laying in it. I made the decision. I keep hoping that it will go away. Hes very good to me. Treats me good. And we get along. But I keep having dreams with other guys in them. But I cant hurt him just because I made a wrong choice, you know? Its not fair to screw up his life. We just dont have a lot in common. and we dont think the same way. I fit into the (N) catagory of Meijers Briggs. and ...he doesnt. If you are the sort of person who believes in that. I think theres something to it. Not that it is almighty or anything. Well, what do you think?

2006-09-17 04:15:31 · 15 answers · asked by Frank 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been in two relationships so far and in both relatioships i was the one to ask for a break up...

2006-09-17 04:15:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 04:15:15 · 4 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Family

I already know the first and last name but i need the middle name, i know the initials are JR, what those initials can mean?, i tried with Junior but no luck, any suggestion about a webstie to find out or about what are the common meanings for those initials?, the person lives in Cincinnati.

2006-09-17 04:14:00 · 3 answers · asked by Latino Girl 2 in Family

http://www.cns11643.gov.tw/voice/mp3/female/L1041.mp3

what's the sound?really scare me
who can tell me what's it?

2006-09-17 04:12:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends