my aunt did this and i was wondering she wrote who it was from and the adress on the tag that came with the gift bag.
2006-09-17 04:20:57 · 17 answers · asked by j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Wedding gifts aren't meant to be anonymous. The proper thing to do when you receive a wedding gift is to send out thank you notes. This is usually done to thank all who attended the wedding and brought gifts. This is probably why ur aunt did that.
2006-09-17 04:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, not rude. A little unconventional, but she may have been worried that you wouldn't get it or that you didn't have her correct address. Not only is sending a thank you note the proper/correct/polite thing to do, it lets the giver know that you actually received their gift.
My parents are still wondering if a card with cash in it they send to a wedding a couple of years ago was received or lost, since they never got a thank you!
2006-09-17 13:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was not rude. Rather, it was the proper thing to do. As the bride, you are supposed to keep a record of each gift you have been given, and send a thank you card to the giver of the gift after the wedding.
2006-09-17 11:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is very thoughtful thing to do. Things get hectic at weddings, gifts get lost. If you are using professionals to set up things, anything can happen especially if there is more than one wedding party at a venue.
Are you thinking she did it because she wanted a thank you note sent to her? You probably already had her address for that.
Are you sure the store did not ask her to do this?
2006-09-17 12:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you don't deserve a gift from such a thoughtful person. She did you a favor by including her address and you're asking if it's rude. Who raised you, a pack of wild dogs? Your manners and knowledge of etiquette are seriously lacking.
2006-09-17 16:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is okay, don't be harsh about it, It helps also to just send a thank you note and not worry about if it is rude or not. It was your day, you got a present be happy that you did.
2006-09-17 12:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by Nattiedred 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tho' this may not rank up there as the most appropriate, at least you won't lose her address or not know who gave the gift.
2006-09-17 11:35:17 · answer #7 · answered by weddrev 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, especially if she's an older woman.
They know "Thank You" cards will eventually be sent out - she's just trying to make it easier on you (sometimes they forget you still have the list lol)
2006-09-17 11:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you sound stuck up. Why would that be rude. PErhaps she thought you would like to send a thank you note as is tradition. I bet your wedding lasts like 2 years, before he cheats on you, becasue you wouldnt put out becasue you were mad at him for leaving his sockes on the floor
2006-09-17 11:29:22 · answer #9 · answered by billyandgaby 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
what's so rude about that? She probably is making sure that you have her address so that you know where to send the "thank-you card"
2006-09-17 15:39:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋