she stays with me acouple times a week she lives in a basement suite at her childhoo sweathearts house he is gone two weeks at atime then home for a week she says their is nothing going on.she loves him aas abrother . she looks after his house while he is gone but im not alowed their for what reason im not sure..we have agood sex life but i dont know what else is going on how could i tell if she is lying to me it is possible their is nothing going on between them is that possible
2006-09-17 04:27:57 · 29 answers · asked by troubled 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are happy being a sex buddy, be quiet and say nothing. Otherwise, let her go, and find someone who will not lie to you.
2006-09-17 04:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by Computer Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any thing is possible... the question you should ask yourself is : Are contented with what's happening? Is this what you want from a relationship - being part time? Are you afraid to really know the truth?If you answer yes to these question, you don't' need to have an answer to your question, but if it's no then you need to get out of this relationship. Knowing if you a sex buddy won't change if you stay will it? She's still not going to be with you full time, unless she willing to giving living with her childhood sweetheart the one week he's back.
2006-09-17 04:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is lying to you. Is she only coming over when he is away those two weeks? Why cant you go there? Obviously she is an adult and just because she is "tending" to his house, she has rights to having a life, unless she is with him. Maybe the sex is not great or she needs more than he is giving her...and thats where you come in. If you want to be a boy toy then just deal...if not then finsd a girl who wants you around
2006-09-17 04:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ya'll don't go out and spend time with each other outside the bedroom, then yes your just a F*** Buddy. Maybe you should ask her what she wants out of it. Some people(women) will not come out and say that all they want is sex, because they will be looked down upon. But, if that's not all she wants then you need to know. So just talk to her! GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-17 04:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by yourqueenofall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she's setting a very firm boundary, he won't allow her to bring any visitors in the home for whatever reason, or she's keeping some thing from you. I wonder if she sees you when he's in town. You could be a pass time while he's gone. Ask her, tell her how you feel.
2006-09-17 04:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by Cara Beth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she only lets you come around when he is gone then I expect that either something is going on or she wants something to be going on and doesn't want him to know about you because she might think that she has a chance with him if he thinks that she is single. If it was me then I would be out and around with out telling her what I was up to and see what she thinks. It sounds to me like she has you like a puppet on a string and wants things her way. It sounds to me like you are just satisfying her temporarily till she gets what she has in plan. Let her play someone else
2006-09-17 04:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are lucky. All the sex and none of the responsibility. I'm betting he is more than just a brother to her. If you want a commited relationship, look elsewhere. If you are happy with what you have, keep it.
2006-09-17 04:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems strange you are not allowed at her place if nothing is going on between them... Yes you are a sex buddy.... If not she would be inviting you over to her place... I don't think the other guy knows about you... Dump her unless you enjoy being the "other guy"....
2006-09-17 04:39:21 · answer #8 · answered by levita45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know the address where she is staying then you should know the "childhood sweethearts" name right? Do the manly gentleman thing and ask the "childhood sweetheart" if they are "involved" and if so ---yes you are a "sex buddy" now the next question is -- do you want to be?--the question is not "how can i tell if she is lying to me!!!!
2006-09-17 04:37:08 · answer #9 · answered by brenda d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, anything is possible, but I would need a specific reason as to why I can't come over especially if she loves him as a brother. Maybe you should stop by sometime when he isn't home.
2006-09-17 04:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by clb_tucker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋