Family & Relationships - 17 September 2006

My mom and I are having SERIOUS issues.One of the main things we fight a/b is her deciding that I HAVE to break up with my boyfriend. We've been together for 14 months and we are very much in love. He had a suicide attempt in July becuase he was very depressed and stressed out over family and money issues. It was a very scary time but he has been seeing a doctor and got on some meds. to help him. He has also had some problems in the past being disrespectfu w mom (i.e hanging up the phone on her and saying bad words in our house, rolling his eyes) but recently he wrote her a nice letter a/b how sorry he was and that a girl like me didn't deserve that and that he would change. My mom also doesn't like his mother very much, but I think that if he is willing to appologize he should be given a second chance. This isnt about his mother. Now, my mom is saying that she and I will go to a Dr. and he will get to decide if Im allowed to still be with him or not. What do you think he'll say

2006-09-17 04:12:19 · 14 answers · asked by jeffsgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy in one of my classes is really hot,and people have said he likes me he also was looking for a gf& Ericha said that (while he was right there) he&i should o out. and ya'll should have seen his face! it's hard to see when he blushes and when you see it it's bad! bad news though he's moving in 18 days to iowah! should we stay just friends or make somethin' more?

2006-09-17 04:10:48 · 11 answers · asked by HalieeBoBaliee. 2 in Singles & Dating

I was completely in love with this guy when I was 17, but we werent even together for 6 months. Right after we broke up I would have a dream about him about once a month, then they gradually started getting farther apart. Well now I am 22 and in the past month I have had about 4 dreams about him, each one where he is begging me to get back with him... what does this mean? Is it true that if you cant get someone out of your head that maybe there supposed to be there?

2006-09-17 04:10:16 · 26 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Singles & Dating

This is a hard question to ask without making a bad impression ... take into account that I live in the Dominican Republic and this is 'normal' here.

How do you guys feel about a 'sugar daddy' situation, meaning having a commited relationship where most of the financial burden is your responsibility?

2006-09-17 04:10:11 · 17 answers · asked by Amy L 2 in Singles & Dating

We have joint custody . We both live in Texas. (Opposite Sides)
She is custodial gaurdian but , now she is incarcerated. The kids are with her mom and Her mom is picking up child support checks , taking them to the jail and having ex sign them and keeping the money. I want to know if since we have joint custody and her mom has no legal rights to the kids , can i have child support stopped and go get my kids ? (4 boys who want to come with me .)

2006-09-17 04:09:50 · 9 answers · asked by brad_1974 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-17 04:08:45 · 4 answers · asked by mort 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 04:08:29 · 22 answers · asked by Bones 1 in Singles & Dating

If you correct him he crys if you say something he doesn't like he crys. He turns it off and on like a water faucet.

2006-09-17 04:07:38 · 24 answers · asked by t1k2n3 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we have known eachother for a while and hang out a lot together with other friends, but he is going back and forth between me and someone else, and i think that he is doing that because i dont think that he knows that i like him any more. HELP!!!!

2006-09-17 04:06:59 · 7 answers · asked by munchie365 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi,

My first date with her.. Well, I'm taller actually but I'm sure she'll be wearing high heels and it will make her like 2 inches taller than me.

Should I act like I don't care, ask her if she's comfortable with it, or try to make a joke out of this matter?

Any suggestions?

Thanks for helping

2006-09-17 04:06:02 · 41 answers · asked by Mr. Owl 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 04:04:58 · 14 answers · asked by life_time 2 in Singles & Dating

hes in london and im in bombay... he left 3 days ago.. and im missing him already... but the problem is tht if he doesnt like me back ill loose my friend and i dont ever want tht.... so should i tell or no? i

2006-09-17 04:04:36 · 13 answers · asked by outtanicks 1 in Singles & Dating

for me, my husband just bought a hamper to pur our clothes in and insted of moving a finger to put his pants inside the hamper he lays them on top, and when i fold his clothes, he'll just take his shirt off and throw it in the closet without folding it, or he'll leave his socks around the house or in the bathroom,..... I dont understand why can't guys keep what their loved ones fixed. I feel like a mother sometimes not a wife

2006-09-17 04:03:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Last night I asked my boyfriend to record the Katt Williams special for me because I don't have HBO. He told he couldnt and he didnt have any VCR tapes all of this without even getting out of bed to look. So I told him thats fine, I would call my grandmother and she would record it for me and I didnt need his favors. He felt bad and got out of bed and found a tape, and I told him No. But I told him that if I was someone else he would have jumped out of bed quickly looking for a tape and I reminded him of earlier in the day when he wanted me to burn some mixtapes for him and I didnt have any blank cd's and I went out and bought a pack of 100...enough for me and enough to burn for him. I didnt tell him "I dont have any cds. I cant do it." I went out and did it for him without thinking twice, then when I ask for something...he quick to tell me no. I wasnt trying to throw it in his face, but more remind him that i think he's selfish. Was that throwing it in his face?

2006-09-17 04:02:55 · 14 answers · asked by brittneyafoster 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 04:02:29 · 27 answers · asked by sarah adorable 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-17 04:01:54 · 7 answers · asked by mtut36 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Should people from these type of backgorunds be avoided if one is seriously trying to get and stay married? My parents have been married for 27 years but its getting harder to find potential mates with similar family backgrounds.

2006-09-17 04:01:14 · 7 answers · asked by Delilah 1 in Singles & Dating

i need help?

2006-09-17 04:00:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-17 03:58:05 · 26 answers · asked by coolguy 1 in Friends

2006-09-17 03:56:50 · 2 answers · asked by al 1 in Family

How old were you when you first had sex?
Did you eventually marry your partner as well?

2006-09-17 03:56:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Family members or friends

2006-09-17 03:56:16 · 20 answers · asked by smartboy231 2 in Family

y does it always happen tht when some1 loves u , u dont really bother that time. and when that person is gone n moved on u realize that even u like him... but its either too late or that person has really moved on....yyyyy??

2006-09-17 03:54:15 · 20 answers · asked by outtanicks 1 in Singles & Dating

I think that my male friend thinks i "like like" him...but i dont,

he keeps flirting with me recently, and tries to be sweeter and he's just different....

So please, tell me, how would you act around a close female friend if you have a suspicion thatshe fancies you?

2006-09-17 03:53:55 · 13 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Friends

When i was 23, I married a widow who was pretty as could be. This widow had a grown-up daughter who had hair of red. My father fell in love with her, and soon the two were wed.
THis made my dad my son-in0law and changed my very life. My daughter was my mother, for she was my father's wife. Although it brought me joy, I soon became the father of a bouncing baby boy.
My little baby then became a brother-in-law to dad. And so became my uncle, though it made me very sad. For if he was my uncle, then that also made him brother to the widow's grouwn-up daughter who, of course, was my stepmother.
Father's wife then had a son, who kept them on the run. And he became my grandson, for he was my daughter's son. My wife is now my mother's mother and it makes me blue. BEcause, although she is my wife, she's my grandma too.

2006-09-17 03:53:09 · 13 answers · asked by phew 2 in Friends

& I had read the book so I knew it was a fairly depressing story, but at the end of the movie it upset me so much I got hysterical & began to weep uncontrollably. I had told my b/f I really didn't want to watch it, but he kept insisting I would "Love" that movie because it was so good. He was not thrilled with my reaction & asked me was I gonna "wig out" like that at any other movies? Am I wrong to be a put off by his attitude? I tried to tell him I didn't want to see it, but he didn't listen - or wouldn't. The end was tearing me up - I watch comedies or action flix cos I hate movies like this one!! Any advice, I'd appreciate it. Thanks -

2006-09-17 03:52:21 · 14 answers · asked by pumpkin 6 in Singles & Dating

hi this dude in ym school keeeps tellign my best friend things about me like, i have a nice a$$ and stuff with me in a bikini on and stuff like that and he tells her thats 2 say hi to me and that im cool and stuff.. do u think he likes me? his name is billy and hes really hott

2006-09-17 03:51:49 · 18 answers · asked by peaches 1 in Friends

couse having sex i think is only for pleasure couse we are descusting americans u could show ur wife u love her by giving her flowers there are many other ways iam not married or ever had it iam only 13 and i think iam more mature than all of u descusting ppl and dont even say iam too young couse i know many ppl make pornos or w/e its bad thats not love those are skanks we americans are descusting and i hope u all know it

2006-09-17 03:51:45 · 9 answers · asked by andralynn147 1 in Singles & Dating

tell me please because i am really sad!!!!

2006-09-17 03:51:09 · 9 answers · asked by nicky y 1 in Singles & Dating

going on in our lives? These days theres barely time to breath. The work, kids, chores. The stress of world events, and whats going on in our own backyards. There seems to be less quality time for families. I remember living for the moment enjoying just knocking around with mates out in the street. Now I freak out letting my kids check the mailbox??????/

2006-09-17 03:50:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family