Should people from these type of backgorunds be avoided if one is seriously trying to get and stay married? My parents have been married for 27 years but its getting harder to find potential mates with similar family backgrounds.
2006-09-17 04:01:14 · 7 answers · asked by Delilah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of ourse, History is not always destiny...
2006-09-17 04:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of Course they're capable of maintaining relationships. People with kids are just normal people!!! Maybe they're divorced because their spouse was abusive or a cheater and they needed to get out for their and the children's best interest. You never know the story unless you take the time to ask each one individually! You can't just paint all divorced parents with the same brush! Give them half a chance. They deserve it, probably more than a single person because most likely they have a clue what they are looking for in a partner!
2006-09-17 04:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they shouldnt be avoided there humans just like everyone else so what if they comefrome a broken home or there parents are divorced but there just like everyone else hey heave aheart that can get brokent o trust me i know my parents was divorced when iw as ten and i was taken from them and put in a foster home and i as i got older when i get ina relationship as soon as i told the gurl that she wouldnt talk tome no ore cuzmost people think that if ur ina foster home ur a troubled kid and its not always true but now ive been married for 5 yrs with this gurl becuz in thebeginning i was upfront and truthful with her about my past and she was like ok about it and evrything but like i sadi before just because theycomefrom broken homes or divorced parents doesnt mean anyhting they canlove just as good as anyone and yea they got hearts that can be broken to so its not wheather u think they should be avoided the question is do you feel you need to avoid them
2006-09-17 04:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by Maverick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, how this question has crossed my mind before too. i believe if someone has at least one parent to confide in then the person will properly develop. alot of adults go through problems, because of things that have happened in there childhood events. and you may try show them that there's more to the world, but they may not be willing to except that. run away. don't get yourself into it. they'll just push you away. you can't save sometime who doesn't want to give you the time in the first place.
2006-09-17 04:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by kenney d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People with dysfunctional family background usually suffer from emotional trauma.
2006-09-17 06:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by MARS1951 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not nice to "categorise" people according to their backgrounds. Who are we to say to another human being, "I don't like you because you are from a broken home"? This is a very shallow posting from you and you should seriously take a good look at yourself
2006-09-17 04:04:13 · answer #6 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure, and no.
2006-09-17 04:03:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋