Family & Relationships - 17 September 2006

I'm not physically attracted to my boyfriend at all, I started dating him for his personality 3 years ago and he helped me thru a really bad break up, but I've been having sexual dreams about my guy friend lately and I find my self thinking of this other guy all the time, I would never act on these feels b/c I don't want to hurt my boyfriend. sometimes I just want to tell them how I feel but it would be a disaster since they are best friends
should i just keep quite? I was wondering if anyone has addivce for me

2006-09-17 00:35:28 · 12 answers · asked by 21/f/mn 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-17 00:33:39 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

openly apologize to the subject of my last question here...It was never my intent to imply that she would ever hurt her child, having watched her with him, I know her to be a very loving mom. Over the past several weeks, her personal stress level has been all over the place for various reasons, and I had not realized just how much her dog had a calming effect on her. She is not abusive to either baby or dog, and has recently found a better balance between them. I am very proud of her, and at the same time a little ashamed of myself for having doubted her in the first place. I am sorry.

2006-09-17 00:33:14 · 7 answers · asked by Laurie K 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i recently kicked out two friends who were a couple- but the behavior of the woman was really the cause. i nanny my sisters baby of 18mo. and this woman{we'll call her mary} mary was constantly coming home drunk and acting out and being horribly loud and obnoxious. in the best intrest of the baby i kicked her and her man out. i feel bad, but was i right??? i feel that my apt, should have been respected- and the rules- now mary is yelling everyone's business and mine all over the neighborhood! im embarrassed, though iv'e done nothing that i feel i need to hide so how should i handle this,???- because i don't feel like fighting with a woman who is a constant drunk now and loud and is just mean-spirited .

2006-09-17 00:33:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, me and girlfriend have always had a good relationship, but lately its been like she's attempting to push me away, but she still says she loves me. She used to tell me everything, now the don't tell me a damn thing, I've talked to her about it and she just keeps saying "I don't know" when i bring up the relationship and how its going. Can someone tell me whats going on!?

2006-09-17 00:30:43 · 15 answers · asked by Priest of Anubis 4 in Singles & Dating

Three days ago I called it quits with my partner after 9 mths of true love. We are very close, but I feel that our core values will doom us.

One of us is a passionate conservative, the other a radical liberal. One feels strongly about the 2nd Amendment (guns), the other won't allow guns in the house. One is a pro-war hawk, the other a pacifist. One feels young children shouldn't be exposed to horror movies or violent sports such as hockey, the other was raised on these themselves. One is a vegetarian environmentalist, other is carnivore hunter. One loves our president, other can't stand him. One wants Bin Laden dead, other wants to forget and move on, etc., etc., etc...

I feel that it would be very difficult to compromise on everything and raise a family together. We're both just too passionate and stubborn about our politics. So I terminated it.

Partner's been calling/writing since, begging me to come back. I want to, but wonder if I should let this go any further???

2006-09-17 00:29:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 00:28:04 · 30 answers · asked by geena_tanner 3 in Singles & Dating

how many years have you both been together? any bad experienced along the years together? does getting lavish gifts from your spouse means good things in future or bad? any expericed at all... thanks for answering and sharing.

2006-09-17 00:27:18 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ lavender baby ♥ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i work in a country around 6500kms away from my wife.At times I have the urge to have sex but so far I have restrained myself.What should a person in my situation do?

2006-09-17 00:26:40 · 20 answers · asked by machopai 1 in Family

These two girls i know both like me but i dont know which one i should go out with

2006-09-17 00:25:03 · 12 answers · asked by BORED GUY ASKING RANDOM ?"S 1 in Singles & Dating

I work alone so no joy there. I've tried online dating but feel like a cheat cos I don't want a partner an the people on there do.

2006-09-17 00:23:32 · 14 answers · asked by PST 1 in Friends

my fiance always tells that he feels my love but dont know why i feel that i am not giving more love to him. he loves me very much and i just want to show him how much i love him. i want to make him very happy. Please suggest how to make him happy. i want him to feel secured with me.

2006-09-17 00:23:07 · 3 answers · asked by hazel_coutinho 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

in the earth i want to leave as a jentelmen

2006-09-17 00:22:27 · 10 answers · asked by Dhiraj S 1 in Family

any help from european or usa women ,who can help me to get the nationality and immigration ,in contrast she will take half of my salary when i work in her country,i am serious come on lonly women and girls

2006-09-17 00:21:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi guys, i need your advise real bad.We have had our ups and downs with this guy(mostly well...always downs actually).He told me he loved me and wanted to marry me..but when i moved to his country ...he did not bother to c me for 4 months...and even then i saw him only once a months or so with phone calls also once every 2 or three weeks.He confused the hell out of me and finally when i moved to another city he did not even bother to call and say good bye.He kept calling after that didnt even think he was in the wrong and could not understand why it is a big deal that he forgot .I got tired of it..told him that i do not really want to talk to him.I stopped answering his phone calls and sent him a message that what ever i have been or done to have changed things, im sorry.He went to my country but did not tell me .I did not hear from him again. for months ..and now all of a sudden after almost 2 months he just called me.I thought we have moved on...so why is he calling and shoud i call.

2006-09-17 00:19:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife has cheated on me in the past and even though she says that currently there is no one in her life - I read msgs on her cell phone that she sent/rcvd from another man - msgs that were of a romantic nature. Recently - about 4 months ago - she told me wanted a separation because she needed her 'freedom" , married life was not for her anymore and that her feelings for me had greatly diminshed - in addition to the fact that we are having lots of financial difficulties. We have a 5 1/2 year old son that we both love very much.

My wife told me that it would not bother her if I "hooked" up with another woman . But to be honest, I really have no desire to be with another woman other than my wife. Also, I would feel like Im cheating on my little son. I don't know why I feel this way. Just for the record I have never cheated on my wife since we got married over 6 1/2 years ago.

2006-09-17 00:18:14 · 59 answers · asked by Cardinal64 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Let me explain. My 1st BF was a plain guy, a bit overweight. We had a great relationship and I couldn't get enough sex with him. After he went to work abroad I took up a low intensity relationship with a really hunky guy, I was the envy of my friends. Problem was I didn't really find him attractive in a sexual way. My 1st guy was always complimenting me on my looks and noticed when I dressed up for him, I liked the way he lusted after me. I enjoyed being the pretty one in the relationship. My 2nd BF seemed more pre-occupied with himself. It was almost as if he was doing me a favour when we had sex. I found sex with him dull actually. we broke up about 4 months ago. Since then I have been single. When I go out with my friends I enjoy ogling attractive guys with them but they don't inspire me to want to sleep with them. On the other hand when I know some presentable but plain looking guy is checking me out I am immediately turned on. I get excited when I catch older guys giving me the

2006-09-17 00:13:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 00:12:26 · 23 answers · asked by COROLLA 3 in Singles & Dating

How can I make sure it will go smoothly and he will ask me back for the second date?. He has a young son, I am worried what his son will think of us going out. How can I make sure it will go smoothly?

2006-09-17 00:11:35 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

based on our religion and mostly we can not meet each other while we are engage so any idea

2006-09-17 00:11:31 · 23 answers · asked by nasir A 1 in Singles & Dating

we've been going out about 5 months now and i want to keep things going. she seems to be too comfortable and wants me to spice things up, but to be honest i have no idea how to do that. any suggestions?

2006-09-17 00:11:12 · 8 answers · asked by Jim McD 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 00:08:58 · 3 answers · asked by satinder p 1 in Friends

2006-09-17 00:08:23 · 19 answers · asked by philbo 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 15 yrs old, well i fell in love wiz a boy who loves me 2n is of the same age. but finally my family knew the thing n i got into great trouble, i can't 4get him. well he's not romantic, n now he doesn't pay so much attention to me compared to ozer girls. wat can i do to make him luv me once more?

2006-09-17 00:06:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you smack your kids? I do and I think it keeps them in line.
They know if they misbehave they will be in a world of pain..

I also think it should be OK for the nursery staff and teachers to do the same.

I know people who do not hit there children and their kids are a nightmare to control.

I think the goverment should keep there noses out of my affairs.

2006-09-17 00:05:36 · 31 answers · asked by wideboy_west 2 in Family

Seriously, Isn't it ok for the man to watch the tube while getting sex, I mean especially Bay Watch

2006-09-17 00:05:35 · 7 answers · asked by bama_cid 3 in Singles & Dating

Friends are meant to be for ever who will help in your ups and downs of your life. But in my life its totally opposite. i have made friends, but now i regret i would have been better without a friend. i had a friend which after some time was converted to love. i told her about my feelings and that was the end of our relationship. does telling about your feelings means that u will even break the freindship which had a four yr old foundation. and it broke just like a palace of cards. i made another friend, coz of the past experience i have kept a distance and it was a pure freindship. but that girl also used me for 6 months and when she had big circle of freinds she left me like a toy with whom she was bored of playing. now u people tell me wouldnt a person will think after this kind of experience that he is much better widout a freindship? Now how will i trust someone?

2006-09-17 00:03:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I hardly use or know anybody for messanger, I'd like to meet more people & get more use out of it.

2006-09-17 00:03:10 · 5 answers · asked by sherriecrazyhome 2 in Friends

I am not sure whether or not if things will work with my gf and I in the future, but yet, I still love her so much..Things might not not work because, I am the one to change too much in the relationship. But, if I break up, I don't know if I will be accept to see her in the arms of someone else ...
what do you think of my situation ..? is it normal ?

2006-09-17 00:01:01 · 5 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

My dreams were in this order a princess, an actress, an archaeologist, a private eye, a writer.

2006-09-17 00:00:02 · 12 answers · asked by butterfly_angelmarie321 2 in Family