i recently kicked out two friends who were a couple- but the behavior of the woman was really the cause. i nanny my sisters baby of 18mo. and this woman{we'll call her mary} mary was constantly coming home drunk and acting out and being horribly loud and obnoxious. in the best intrest of the baby i kicked her and her man out. i feel bad, but was i right??? i feel that my apt, should have been respected- and the rules- now mary is yelling everyone's business and mine all over the neighborhood! im embarrassed, though iv'e done nothing that i feel i need to hide so how should i handle this,???- because i don't feel like fighting with a woman who is a constant drunk now and loud and is just mean-spirited .
2006-09-17 00:33:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
thank you guys and gals thanks for the feedback, i feel better about being now in the right. lol. yahoo people
2006-09-17 01:28:46 · update #1
You have a right to kick anyone out of your place that is acting inappropriately. Don't fight with her, just let her say whatever is she is going to say and just ignore her. Sounds like you are much better off without her in your life.
2006-09-17 00:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have already taken the action, so just live with it. Why do you feel you need to hide? Do you feel guilty in evicting her?
The house is yours so you set the house rules! Those who do not abide by the rules will have to leave. Simple as that.
Do not be intimidated by Mary's behaviour. Just ignore them. If you are questioned just give your reasons. If not, then just go on with your own life! You don't owe anyone a living.
2006-09-17 01:09:04 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing!go on about your business and ignore this person. (you can never win with a drunk and if shes blabbing her mouth all over the place, she has insecurity issues andnothing you do is gonna change that)Best not to know her. other people will see this in her. respect in ones home and around a child is always first and utmost.
2006-09-17 00:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by debo3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing cause you do have a apt to oversee and they can't follow the rules and there are young kids there also and she is drunk around the kid yes you did the right thing.
2006-09-17 00:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what's right for you and don't worry about what people think. You're darn right that baby comes first. You don't need degenerate idiots living in your home. You're better then them. Good job.
2006-09-17 00:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by Spirit-X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't worry about it, i am sure the neighbors know her for who she is and she has no credibility with them, you tried to help two friends and they abused your friendship ... no great loss, they were not true friends to you, they were using you ... ignore them, it will blow over
2006-09-17 00:40:20 · answer #6 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure ppl know what she is like, they probably dont believe a word she is saying.
2006-09-17 00:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has their limits.
choose your flatmates more carefully next time.
2006-09-17 00:40:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋