Family & Relationships - 17 September 2006

my boyfriend will do everything except have sex with me. he wants to; it's not a question of not wanting to or not being into me. he's just paranoid of getting me pregnant. I am on birth control, I use condoms, and it is medically impossible for me to get pregnant anyway. I depend on birth control, without it I'd bleed to death. my doctor can explain it better, but the jist is I can't have children. I've told him this. HOW do I get him over his paranoia?

2006-09-17 01:43:03 · 25 answers · asked by missesmoo236 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm comming round to your house in 5 minutes, Whats the first thing you will hide?

your cds, magazines, husband ?? let me know !!

2006-09-17 01:42:37 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-17 01:40:49 · 13 answers · asked by Mary Rose 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok.. the guy i liked last year turned out to like another girl(not the one i expected). this is this year. i don't think i have any feelings for him but..i still like him? and want him to like me?? well, one time, in one of our classes he asked his friend who was seating beside me to switch seats with him. so i take that as a positive sign.but then neither of us are speaking to each other. well, hardly any guys speak to me coz they think i'm a snob and most girls think that he's a snob also. do u think he likes me?any advice?

2006-09-17 01:37:19 · 7 answers · asked by smashmouth 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 01:34:31 · 14 answers · asked by SOLONX 1 in Family

We have been having nice time together but all of a sudden she started complaining about me. She will never mention any good thing i do but always emphasize about my shortcomings. She has been inviting me to pass nite in her house but she refused to come to my place bcos she wants me to get a better place and i don't have air-conditioner in my house but she has. Pls what can i do about this girl?

2006-09-17 01:31:03 · 8 answers · asked by Ola 1 in Singles & Dating

she died just a month ago and i am very affected by her death

2006-09-17 01:31:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

... say it anyway: Why do I feel such a strong bond and camaraderie with all you good people on Y!A, especially when we don’t even know each other that well? ... And no, it is NOT because I am drunk, high, overly sensitive, mentally ill, dysfunctional, naive, co-dependent, bored, recovering from a traumatic event, or was ever underprivileged, religious, an atheist, looking for cheap thrills, in desperate need of joining a social club, "necessarily" a nerd (lol), or even lacking good friends in real life (in fact, much to the contrary). It's just that being here in the company of all you wonderful people, "somehow" makes me feel tremendously thankful for the opportunity. Sort of like a sweet addiction, but not exactly. ... Please don't take me wrong, it is not that I am questioning this great feeling at all, but sometimes I wish I had a better grasp of why exactly that is. ... Thanks for your perspectives, in advance.

2006-09-17 01:30:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

recently i feel i lost interest in doing sex with my bf and i dont feel the excitment anymore what does that mean ... we alway being doing it for abt 1-2 times in a week for the past 4 yrs

2006-09-17 01:29:17 · 10 answers · asked by yeron ng 2 in Singles & Dating

i like to have a true friend.

2006-09-17 01:29:08 · 16 answers · asked by chakkara 1 in Friends

What if you argue & never come up with any conclusion? Or you argue but he never relly listens to what you say? Then he thinks you don't listen to what you say just because you don't do it instantaneously?

2006-09-17 01:29:03 · 21 answers · asked by twinkle toes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When you have a child does it seem to further complicate things?

2006-09-17 01:26:41 · 10 answers · asked by twinkle toes 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with someone off and on for over 2 years now. Out of those 2 years she has gone back and forth to her ex g/f. There are several reasons they are tied together the most important being a child. The ex moved out of town and only comes to visit on the weekends We have a great connection thats recognized by her as well. She says theyre working things out or theyre back together but things arent the same as when they were living together. I know I am looking at it from a different view than she is but I dont see how she could even think it would work. She is always complaining about something the ex did to tick her off or something the ex did as far as the child is concerned that she didnt agree with. This is a gay relationship and we are all women. My "g/f" tells me she has deep feelings for me but cant seem to make the break from the ex. She continues to see me despite whatever she has with the ex. So..how long do I wait when I KNOW in my heart this is the real deal?

2006-09-17 01:24:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told this guy I like him and he says he doesnt want a relationship at the moment. That's fine but I still want to be friends with him but he is really 'nervous' (not quite the right word) maybe awkward around me now. I really want to just hangout together as friends What can I do about this?

2006-09-17 01:24:18 · 6 answers · asked by lil 4 in Friends

2006-09-17 01:23:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

be open

2006-09-17 01:23:38 · 29 answers · asked by smartygirlmisbah 1 in Friends

2006-09-17 01:20:52 · 17 answers · asked by egyptlad 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 01:20:50 · 23 answers · asked by Blaque Inque 3 in Singles & Dating

“I’m too old to change”, “Some people never change”. We’ve all heard them before, right? Just how true are those statements?

2006-09-17 01:20:42 · 21 answers · asked by Lady Tee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If so, how do you know if you have found yours?

2006-09-17 01:19:13 · 15 answers · asked by passion flower 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend is both libra i want him to be my longterms relationship in short husband it is possible?

2006-09-17 01:17:10 · 11 answers · asked by marilyn l 1 in Weddings

2006-09-17 01:16:03 · 14 answers · asked by anonymous girl 1 in Singles & Dating

or an ifriends account?

2006-09-17 01:15:14 · 36 answers · asked by ♥2323vsb 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she was my schoolmate during my 9th n10th std....but she left d school after dat..it h'd been 6yrs since i met her..for all dese period of 6yrs i was thinking bout dat gurl...but my faith paid off..i met her over the orkut..i chat vith her over messenger..she doesn't h'v a Bf til now...but d problem is shez very gud luking..so i worry dat she might mistake me n break d friendship..Moreover she shudn't think dat i'm behind her luks.Shez a short tempered gurl but shez really nice n caring!! it is dis nature which atttracted me 2wards her....i keep thinking bout her n cudn't concerntrate on my work.

2006-09-17 01:14:37 · 13 answers · asked by dude 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 01:14:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-17 01:13:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-17 01:12:31 · 10 answers · asked by saffa girl 1 in Family

there this girl wth who we were best-friends last year but all of a sudden we stopped talking..she prefered to spend more time wth some other friends and wasn't really paying attention to me so we stopped talking...yesterday she came and told me that she wants to become best-friends again but i don't want to..and i also don't feel like we can be friends again...so how do i tell her without sentimentally hurting her..?

2006-09-17 01:11:50 · 7 answers · asked by Jo-anne 3 in Friends

2006-09-17 01:11:33 · 4 answers · asked by townlippydown 2 in Friends

(why not anything beyond)

2006-09-17 01:11:03 · 8 answers · asked by pooja 1 in Singles & Dating