I have been with someone off and on for over 2 years now. Out of those 2 years she has gone back and forth to her ex g/f. There are several reasons they are tied together the most important being a child. The ex moved out of town and only comes to visit on the weekends We have a great connection thats recognized by her as well. She says theyre working things out or theyre back together but things arent the same as when they were living together. I know I am looking at it from a different view than she is but I dont see how she could even think it would work. She is always complaining about something the ex did to tick her off or something the ex did as far as the child is concerned that she didnt agree with. This is a gay relationship and we are all women. My "g/f" tells me she has deep feelings for me but cant seem to make the break from the ex. She continues to see me despite whatever she has with the ex. So..how long do I wait when I KNOW in my heart this is the real deal?
2006-09-17 01:24:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't be in a relationship where someone couldn't make up their mind. I want someone who is in it for the long haul. Usually relationships do not work when they are on again off again type of relationships. That is by my observations of people in similar situations. Best of luck to you.
2006-09-17 01:28:28 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stand back, turn around and go. When and if your g/f finally ever makes her mind up, you'll either be there for her, or you'll already be involved with a new relationship. They don't seem to realize their not only NOT doing justice for you with all of this, I'm sure the child see's it also.
2006-09-17 08:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why wait? don't you want to be the only one? Why should she commit to either one of you if you allow her to go back and forth the best thing you can do is move on if he truly loved you she be exclusively with you
2006-09-17 08:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not the real deal! face the facts you are a piece on the side. She is getting her cake and eating it too. No pun intended.
2006-09-17 08:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by dgrainger77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep waiting. Hold your breath until everybody becomes exactly what you want.
2006-09-17 08:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah, well..
2006-09-17 08:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋