2006-09-17 01:40:49 · 13 answers · asked by Mary Rose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Evaluate what you want in life & your values. Make sure they have a good bit of similarities with you. If you share similar goals & enjoy doing similar things together but also respect eachothers differences. If you can still follow your dreams while being married then do it. Not just that love high when you want to be around eachother all the time doing everything togther and all mushy mushy. When you both can truly show who you really are to eachother and the love doesn't change. When you enjoy being together & enjoy reuniting when you're apart. When you both can share your life together, seperate & apart. Making sure you have good communication & you know that is your best friend. Sexual attraction won't make a marraige work. Though it can help sustain one when you both are truly connected to eachother.
2006-09-17 01:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by twinkle toes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. People change over the years so a situation may present itself as ready for marriage at one time then, as time goes on, situations may cause regret in getting married. Of course, situations change that make marriage a better ideal also.
2006-09-17 09:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by acedelux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sit down and think about what marriage is about, and then think if you can do. Can you give up being one to become two? To think of the other person feelings and try to see things threw there eyes. Can you stand by that person even if you don't agree with them and help pick them up when they are wrong? Mainly you lesson to your heart and it will let you know if you are ready or if your partner is.
2006-09-17 08:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have accomplished all that is necessary to be independent. In this way you become a partner knowing that you have made a choice and will not feel trapped. Finish your education and travel. Do all of the things that become difficult to do when one is bogged down with the responsibilities of home and hearth and possibly little feet.
2006-09-17 08:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you propose to her and she says yes, then she obviously thinks shes ready. You cannot make that decision for her. Are you ready for marriage?....thats all you need to ask yourself. Leave her decisions up to her...you may underestimate her abilities if you assume things.
2006-09-17 09:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she truly loves that person whom she have shared her feelings,problems for a very long period,she might be.Or being curious, you could probably just pop up the question to see what her reply is (that is if you are willing to do so)..
2006-09-17 08:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she hangs all over you all the time, and doesn't want to be away from you..... and you live together, you both share money, you've never cheated on each other, and she gave you a pet name.
2006-09-17 10:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he/she is stable enough to support their own family in the future... and being ready physically, emotionally and even spiritually.
2006-09-17 08:47:29 · answer #8 · answered by raindrops 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um..ask her..not to marry you, but ask her opinion of the subject.
watch for her reaction. make sure she's aware its in your goals someday..
2006-09-17 10:05:00 · answer #9 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live with her, you really dont know a person until you live with them.
2006-09-17 15:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋