or an ifriends account?
2006-09-17 01:15:14 · 36 answers · asked by ♥2323vsb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I DO NOT WANT AIDS OR ANYTHING ELSE.
2006-09-17 01:20:58 · update #1
i am a self respecting person. i don't want aids or any other diseases. frankly, i don't think condoms protect, and i'm sick of this attitude people have about "safe sex". there is no such thing. unless you are masturbating.
2006-09-17 01:23:41 · update #2
if he's looking for "a dicreet 1 on 1 relationship" i could get aids. i don't know who he's doing. how long it's been going on.
2006-09-17 02:19:40 · update #3
misspelled discreet
2006-09-17 02:20:40 · update #4
using the computer at the library answer his ad. set up a date with him under a fake name. He if asks for a picture send him a picture of a women you think he would find attractive. When you set up the date meet him in a nice restaurant in a disguise. After the Waiter brings the wine take off your disguise and the only words you say are YOUR BUSTED. Then walk out and leave him to stew in his own mess.
2006-09-17 01:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by purrfectsandcastle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw out the sweats and get some decent lingerie. Pay attention to him. Have a conversation about him not the wonderful list of to-dos you've prepared for him but rather about an interest he has. Forget to pay the bill for the ISP so it gets shut off and use the time it takes to get it straightened out to rekindle your romance.
If that's too much work or he's not worth it kick him to the curb and open an account on ifriends to recruit a replacement :)
2006-09-17 01:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by white_yack 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i'd be pretty shitty and i'd have to confront him... i've realised that marriage is based on honesty, trust and communication... Talk to him and ask why he's got the account... what made him open the account? is he not happy? it may be difficult to ask the questions outright because you may not want to hear the answers... but if you never ask then you'll never know and if you never know then nothing can be resolved...
maybe he was looking to make new friends (not a fling)
my marriage had a communication breakdown and things started getting ugly... but once we opened up more to each other and talked things got better... and we worked on the problem areas... So just ask him and try and figure out if there is a problem first... good luck!!
2006-09-17 01:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by JazzyKat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow Up.
Just for the record, you cannot get AIDS from your computer.Unless of course someone infected bled on the board.
It is possible that he is just curious about what is going on in your area with people who have a realistic attitude toward marriage and sex.
2006-09-17 01:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it could not be very a distant possibility for adult friendfinder to send your husband emails when he never made an account
2016-03-27 04:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought about this? It mite be your fault that he's looking somewhere else. Have you let yourself go (got fat) treat him like he's only a a meal ticket unless it benefits you? Do you rape his paycheck for anything extra? Has he had to get used to not having any money in his pocket and always having to take care of things himself? This includes sexual gratification! Does he even want to touch you anymore or does that make his skin crawl?
2006-09-17 02:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by metalbu11dawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him for the truth....if he lies then it just means he has other things to hide. But, be fair. An account might be ...he got drunk one night and joined because he was mad at you and has long ago forgotten about it. If Opening an account is the same as cheating, then thinking about robbing a bank is the same as robbing one. People do stupid things when they are angry.
2006-09-17 01:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in this spot,too.It's like he looks for one thing-one on one disreet-,while telling me another-it's only you baby (and actually you can communicate on these sites to hook up.)It can lead to feeling frustrated,insecure and disrespected.The truth will come out,and until I know different I've chosen to indulge him,controlling him isn't the answer but neither is blind trust.I say keep your eyes open and mouth closed past the initial discussion(in our case there have been far too many!)Good LucK!!
2006-09-17 08:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by lotsalovetanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an account yourself. Why not, if it's innocent fun?
Once you get an account though, you might hook up with him under a pseudonym, so things could get awkward (cue The Escape Song from the 1970s)...
2006-09-17 01:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the basis of a relationship.If you trust him 100% there is not a problem.My partner and I have loads of male/female friends on here.You do the same as him.Chill out.
2006-09-17 01:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋