she died just a month ago and i am very affected by her death
2006-09-17 01:31:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
PRAY!!!!!!!!!!!!! (if you're a believer in God, if you're not, you might want to, cuz GOd is the only one who can get u through this, im soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo sorry u lost ur Grandmother, i know if i lost my grandma i'd be devestated! it's too painful to even be thinkin bout! but sweetie listen jus pray, ask God for guidance, Strength and encouragement to get u through this painful time, and instead of being sad over her death, celebrate the many wonderful years she had on this earth, And remember that you'll see her again in heaven, it's not good bye, but see you later. God bless u sweetie, and once again sooooo sorry!
2006-09-17 01:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by Here2Help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry about your Grandma. I know exactly how you feel. You just have to remember the good times that you have spent with her. She will always be looking out for you. I know this because I lost my daughter a little over a year ago, and it has been very difficult. I wish you God's speed.
2006-09-17 08:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by doglady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not easy to loose a loved one. I am truly sorry for your lose. Try and put yourself at peace with her passing by holding on to all the great memories you have of her. Take peace in knowing she is at peace. You were obviously very close. Know she is still with you in spirit, The pain from her lose will get better in time. It will never go away, but you will learn to live with it. She wouldn't want you to be sad. Learn from things she taught you. And pray for her. And yes, (even if this sounds stupid) Talk to her. She will hear you. She is your guardian angle. God Bless you. You sound like a wonderful Grand daughter.
2006-09-17 11:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by ASTORROSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard it hapen to me as well i was close to my grandma and she passed away and I loved her very much it takes time but dont always think of it as a death but as a way to remeber all the good times you have had with her and how much she loved you and you loved her time will heal and you will always have her with you in your heart and soul she will watch over you as my grandma (abuela) watches over me celebrate the life she lived
2006-09-17 08:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by Raquel C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you.
Grief is real - and the grieving process is part of the healing of your loss.
Remember the good times you had with your grandmother and treasure them.
Most communities have psychotherapists who are willing to discuss your grief issues. Also, if you are still in school there should be a counselor who will help you through this process.
Good luck to you - and good for you for understanding that you are grieving.
2006-09-17 20:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by John the Revelator 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will become less affected as time goes on.
It is probably good to mourn like you are, so just know that she is at peace no matter where she is now.
2006-09-17 08:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think about the positives. Yes she is dead, but she is in a better place now, and most likely, she'll be waiting for you in heaven.
2006-09-17 09:25:14 · answer #7 · answered by clover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋