there this girl wth who we were best-friends last year but all of a sudden we stopped talking..she prefered to spend more time wth some other friends and wasn't really paying attention to me so we stopped talking...yesterday she came and told me that she wants to become best-friends again but i don't want to..and i also don't feel like we can be friends again...so how do i tell her without sentimentally hurting her..?
2006-09-17 01:11:50 · 7 answers · asked by Jo-anne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What she did 2 u was not fair.So it doesn't matter if u hurt her a bit.Still i can suggest that u sit & have a frank talk with her.Tell her dat u feel ur friendship won't work out.
2006-09-17 01:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by aditi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a girl in my life like this.....that has just recently tried to re enter my life after two years of doing the same to me.......problem being was that she had been my best friend for 7 years already....and i was god mother to her children......and as much as it hurts......i had to tell her that its something that can never be again because she broke my trust by treating me so bad, and doing things to me that i wouldnt expect from a stranger.........you need to be strong and look this girl in the eye and tell her that if she ever really cared for you, she would never have treated you in such a way, and that she needs to find friends elsewhere, because you dont deserve to be treated like that, and will not accept in from her anymore.......its what i did, and you will be much happier for it......
2006-09-17 08:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never take the perception of friendship seriously. Friends come, friends go. Today's enemies can be tommorrow's friends and vice versa.
To answer your question, treat her response to you earlier as a characteristic of hers. In my opinion, to deal with your friend and people in general, take a no commitment approach to your relationship. She is just another gal.
As time pass and as you grow up, you will find there are all kinds of people around. The best way is to try to be friendly to everyone, but take a no commitment approach to relationship among friends.
They are JUST friends...........
If you go into the world of business, you will know what I mean.........................
2006-09-17 08:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by Forward 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly she already hurt you you should tell her that time has come and passed you have other friends now and you no longer have time for her. She didn't care about your feelings when she abandoned you as a friend tell her the truth and get on with your life.
2006-09-17 08:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by souless one 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u may feel tht u cant be friends again, but tht is just "now" believe me time is a healer, and once u forgive her, things r gonna go back to normal, but u can blame her for how she treated u...tht way u can feel better, but really she deserves a second chance
2006-09-17 08:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by Drowned in English! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is never planned....neither making or breaking. Be normal with her....see if you can generate same feelings for her...if not she will get signals !!
2006-09-17 08:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you can be friends, but just friends. you hve another best friend. so treat as a nice person, but take her on vacation or shopping with you.
2006-09-17 08:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋