based on our religion and mostly we can not meet each other while we are engage so any idea
2006-09-17 00:11:31 · 23 answers · asked by nasir A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have said based on your religion but according to the Word of God religion is a defilement and we know how Ruth and Boaz courted in the sheds. Also, we are told the bed is undefiled and if we want to enter into heaven, we must be born again. The Word is clear and there is no doubt as the Word has never changed as others have been updated since it was first written for us all.
It is Scriptural truth that both should be virgins and sexually untouched by any other. So, it can be argued anytime after the marriage sex with consent can take place. This will usually happen after each has been aroused and it takes very little to make an arousal. Some probably wait until they are in each other's arms in bed. He may be holding her in his arms fondling her curvaceous body till he reaches his target. At this point, he will let his erect penis touch her leg or she may take it in her hand. If she has raised no objections his finger should locate her clitoris. As he fondles it she will get aroused and most likely have an orgasm. She will probably weep with joy so he should hold her tight and she will probably take hold of his penis for the first time. As she fondles his penis he can slip his finger into her vagina till he finds her Grafenberg Spot or as it is commonly known by the G Spot. When he finds it on the roof of her vagina he should very gently stroke it slowly till she lets go and tightens her grip on his penis as she has several orgasms.
When she has recovered she will be well ready to take his penis in her vagina but the first time he enters it he should do it slowly particularly if he is not circumcised although he should not be. As his penis enters her vagina her vagina will push his foreskin back over the crown of the penis and stays there. He should start to pump her vagina slowly and then faster holding his semen back if he feels it is about to ejaculate and she is still enjoying it. When he has it under control again he restarts and holding her tight in his arms he rolls over on his back so she can do the work and then on the side so they both can do it till both release. His is white semen and hers is just a wee squirt of fluid that can happen when she masturbates. When both have had their first sexual pleasure together he should encourage her to roll his foreskin back over the crown of his penis. If she has enjoyed it she will be very keen for more and she will be wearing very sexy underwear to arouse him. I hope this helps making your first night a happy one.
2006-09-17 02:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by anane653 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen to what your new wife wants from you. Be gentle and don't rush anything. Take time, lots of time, the whole night.
Watch her signals, don't do anything she doesn't like, if you don't know whether she likes it or not ask her. Maybe she might not even want to have sex on that night, respect her wishes. Get to know her and make her feel special. Tell her how beautiful she is all the time and tell her exactly what you like about her. Make her feel comfortable.
2006-09-17 00:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by lakmii 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get her slightly drunk, but not too much. she's very scared and so you must make her feel warm happy and secure. DO NOT FORCE HER TO DO ANYTHING let her touch you and be sweet and kind. read the KAMA SUTRA and touch her very gently and carress her body and kisses all over help. make sure she's completely comfortable and when you do take her virginity gently bite her so she is distracted. just be loving.
2006-09-17 00:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a book about love-making. Read it through together so that you both know what to expect.
If she is not ready on the first night, just hold her tightly, embrace her in your arms would give her sufficient security to move forward.
I respect people who keep virginity till their marriage. Good luck.
2006-09-17 05:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by Ruth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be gentle and attentive, and understand that being the first time can be embarrassing and awkward.
I am sure you understand that about the Physical aspects of losing your Virginity, so concentrate on the Emotional aspect.
Congratulations and I wish you and your Loved one many years of Happiness.
2006-09-17 00:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sex is a natural thing.When 2 persons of opposite sex (nowadays even same sex are doing it) are in an intimate position, everything else comes naturally.U will be amazed that you will know what to do.This is the wonder of God's creation.Hope you have a good one.
2006-09-17 00:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by machopai 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I will assume that this is a heterosexual union and that you are the male, groom, husband, etc.
If so.. tap 'dat *** boy!!!!! its your WEDDING NIGHT, your supposed to be poppin them thangs.. hittin it up from the back.. hopefully your not a one minute man though. Good luck!
2006-09-17 00:23:58 · answer #7 · answered by Casey G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-28 16:27:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who the hell is "we" and who is the virgin? Is this a prearranged marriage? That is not a marriage, my friend, that is a business arrangement, sad to say.
Religions that act that way are somewhat upgefucken if you ask me.
2006-09-17 00:18:50 · answer #9 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's in human nature to make love, it comes by itself.. nothing to learn about..
Or may be you can just watch a film and go to sleep :) kidding..
2006-09-17 00:25:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋