Friends are meant to be for ever who will help in your ups and downs of your life. But in my life its totally opposite. i have made friends, but now i regret i would have been better without a friend. i had a friend which after some time was converted to love. i told her about my feelings and that was the end of our relationship. does telling about your feelings means that u will even break the freindship which had a four yr old foundation. and it broke just like a palace of cards. i made another friend, coz of the past experience i have kept a distance and it was a pure freindship. but that girl also used me for 6 months and when she had big circle of freinds she left me like a toy with whom she was bored of playing. now u people tell me wouldnt a person will think after this kind of experience that he is much better widout a freindship? Now how will i trust someone?
2006-09-17 00:03:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Friendships are made up of people and people do change, thus the quality of friendships change also.
2006-09-20 20:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine25 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a shame about your first friend, it's sad when feelings are one-sided.
Your second friend was of the user variety and therfore no loss to you at all.
You may not want to hear it now while you're still raw but these situations are fairly common. Didn't help, did it?
You sound like a genuine caring person, there WILL BE someone else for you.
2006-09-17 07:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by Yellowstonedogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that, but let me tell you something that i think you still don't know, that's friends are not forever it might end up good but usually it's bad just like what happened to you and beside don't let your past hold you back and think life's suck. along the way you might find someone who is meant to be with you forever and when that time comes would you appreciate her more if you didn't suffer from a bad situation that you had?
2006-09-17 07:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by beng_ganda25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear what happened you in the past ...but you should never give up ...aquaintenaces come and go but real friends stay through bad and good ...it takes time to find good friends but they are well worth haveing
If your previous efforts makeing friends failed try and stand back and see why ...hopefully you will be able to resolve the reasons it failed before and be more successfull in the near future....best of luck and stay hopeful
2006-09-17 07:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by pineforestkim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see you can not do this with yourself. so what if two people of your life have been mean too much. stop harressing yourself. try and make new friends but don't get emotionally attached with them until you find that they will live longer. i know it hurts when someone closed to you are not in your life but the principal of the life is to move on. come on this is life, wherein not everyone will be with us sameway not every people will be away from us.
2006-09-17 07:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by crazychori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋