I am not sure whether or not if things will work with my gf and I in the future, but yet, I still love her so much..Things might not not work because, I am the one to change too much in the relationship. But, if I break up, I don't know if I will be accept to see her in the arms of someone else ...
what do you think of my situation ..? is it normal ?
2006-09-17 00:01:01 · 5 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
grow up and move on
2006-09-17 00:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes..fear in losing someone u love is normal..just don't dwell over it too much
I thnk tht relationship is tricky n complicated enuf without u looking too far in the future n doubting how it will turn out to be. If u can already foresee something going wrong i thnk either u change n act to save the relationship or let things worsen.
Worst comes to worst..If things don't work out in the future, the most fair thing u could do is to let her go and respect whoever she wants to be with. yeah,,jealousy will be there initially but it never lasts for too long...In time, tht wound will heal n u'll come out a stronger n better man
Seriously..i really believe tht if u truly love her n can't bear her in another man's arms..make it work! :)
Good luck!
2006-09-17 07:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't have a choice. If she decides she doesn't want you, well, "No means No". You will eventually accept the fact that she is with someone else. But to sit around and keep thinking about all this Will drive you bonkers. Know you will hurt for a while. Then you will move on. This is life.
2006-09-17 07:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are worrying unnecessarily.
2006-09-17 07:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but it is unrealistic ... you cant take love, you can only give it
2006-09-17 07:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋