Hi,
My first date with her.. Well, I'm taller actually but I'm sure she'll be wearing high heels and it will make her like 2 inches taller than me.
Should I act like I don't care, ask her if she's comfortable with it, or try to make a joke out of this matter?
Any suggestions?
Thanks for helping
2006-09-17 04:06:02 · 41 answers · asked by Mr. Owl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't mention it, if you're comfortable then she'll be comfortable.
Act confident but not cocky, and if the matter comes up then sure, talk about it. But don't act insecure. If she would like to take off her heels then go along with it but do not, under any circumstances make her or ask her to. It'll only make her feel strange.
2006-09-17 04:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, she's obviously interested in you since she said yes to the date. Tell her how great she looks and that you love tall women. This will put her at ease. She may be worried about the same thing. I'm 5'10" and my wife is 5'9" so if she wears heels she's a little taller than me but I don't care. I'm proud to be with her. Look at Tom Cruise...Nicole Kidman was like 6" taller than him & Katie is too. Just go & have a good time...forget about the height thing. If you guys hit it off it won't matter.
2006-09-17 04:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it mate ,she already knows how tall you are and likes you or she wouldn't have agreed to go on a date with you! If she turns up and is a little bit taller than you, just make a joke of it. To be honest, the only size that matters is the size of your dick! Are you going to worry about that when the time comes?Hope you have a good date. xxxx
2006-09-17 04:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by missfattyfudgecake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im taller than my man without heals.So just deal with it. No need to bring it up unless she does And then you two can make a joke out of it. That doesnt make a relationship anyways.
2006-09-17 04:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm taller than my fiance. We were both sitting down when we met so I didn't notice. By the time I realised the height difference (about 3 inches) I didn't care. If you don't worry about it then neither will she.
Good luck.
2006-09-17 04:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by StolenAnjel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act like you dont care about the height thing if she does wear high heels. If she brings it up... then you can make a joke out of it if you wish. Have fun!!
2006-09-17 04:09:16 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, whether you like woman taller than you or not, you are to go on this date anyway. So be yourself and take it as a casual meal with a friend.
If you cannot take girls taller than you (it's a personal choice), you still need to end it nicely, right?? Be gentlemen throughout!
2006-09-17 05:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by Ruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter how tall you are? As long as your both happy and having fun! I see guys at my school dating girls 5 inches taller than they are and they have no problems with it.
2006-09-17 04:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm....this is a hard one. Well, what does it matter really? If you like this person and they like you that's what you should go on. I mean, it's the inner person that you fall in love with not the outer. Don't be shallow and think height is everything. Just have fun and enjoy the other person for who they are and how they effect you.
2006-09-17 04:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by jacquelinebrns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seriously doesn't matter if she's taller. Why make it an issue if it isn't one? Surely, you can think of a million other things to talk about.
2006-09-17 04:10:54 · answer #10 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋