Family & Relationships - 7 September 2006

I am 5'4", 121 lbs., fit and muscular, honey blonde, well proportioned...I am hurt by my husband's porn surfing activities. I have consistent offers to hook up with men, but I am madly in love. Why does he feel the need to look at porno pics of other women? help me understand and not take this personally

2006-09-07 15:03:53 · 34 answers · asked by s h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and don't know what they look like, except the general, hair and eye color. The two of you have been talking for a few weeks and you both admit that you really enjoy your conversations and seam to get along great. ...What if when you two meet, the physical appearance is not what you were hoping for, or at the very least expecting? Would that change your opnion of that girl? If so. why??? Is she not the same person you felt , that you got along great with on the telephone? Why is her apperance so important? I can see if she was unclean or dressed sleazy, but say she was heavier than she admitted to be, only because she had been hurt before , for this very same reason...

I want honesty here men, Don't sugar coat anything.

2006-09-07 15:03:50 · 14 answers · asked by Mommy Dearest 5 in Singles & Dating

broke up with her bf.. .. horrible relation ship with the rest of the family and no friends... what do i do??? she started crying when i told her i couldnt go for a walk w/ her cuz i was in the middle of a school assaignment..... said no one is there for her.... WHAT DO I DO??

2006-09-07 15:03:21 · 13 answers · asked by daisy_may_love 1 in Family

she said she would and now even after school started she still hasn't called or come here. we were going to live on campus and only i am here now and when i called her a week ago she said she was coming but now she hasnt called or replied to my calls i even left a message with her mom and her sister. do you guys think i should call her back?what should i do?

2006-09-07 15:03:15 · 1 answers · asked by goliathrox 1 in Friends

I think love exists but you can only show someone love for them to know it, rather saying it all the time. What do you believe?

2006-09-07 15:02:52 · 23 answers · asked by Khristian B 2 in Singles & Dating

Oh what to do..what to do When you have exceeded your daily quota for E-Mails through "yahoo answers"?

2006-09-07 15:01:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 15:01:40 · 11 answers · asked by specially edumacated 1 in Friends

well i have a self confidence problem like i hate looking in the mirror cause i think im so ugly and fat but everyone i ask thinks im really pretty and skinny and i dont think any guy likes me ..i want a high confidence like most girls do how can i achieve this what are some ways i can do

http://pic2.piczo.com/glitta-n-gloss/?pr...
thats i picture of me last year i look different this year what do you think?

2006-09-07 15:01:03 · 35 answers · asked by ♥◦◊◦Brown eyed babe◦◊◦♥ 3 in Friends

My 5 month old, twin boy nephews are going to be here this weekend from TN. This is the first time I will see them in person. I thought it would be nice to get them a gift. Any Ideas??

2006-09-07 15:01:00 · 12 answers · asked by Boricua Chic 3 in Family

one day one of my ex-girlfriends sent me a text message out of the middle of know were and all it said was "I love you"

2006-09-07 15:00:46 · 11 answers · asked by T 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys when a girl you're dating tells you that she's a virgin and wants to stay that way until she's married, what would you think?

2006-09-07 14:59:08 · 7 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

its simple, i get nervous. i really like her, but i dont know if she feels the same about me. any advice?

2006-09-07 14:58:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she was molested when she was very young before she came to live with me , Now she suffers from border line persona;ity disorder. She really wanted to have me date her boss who is very nice , (My daughter is not close to her mom ) So we met and did in fact hit it off as the raltoinship wdent further myh daughter got really weird saaying all kinds of evil things about me anything from that i'm a cheater to a beater this cuased alot of strain on the relationship I had with this lady but the kicker is when she turned 18 she moves out and in with her boss . her boss and i stil see each other but have to be very secluded about the rlationship part if my daugher sees it she flips out in a rage, She started to remember everything and her boss is the person she told so she thinks I am going to take her away and leave her alone it's very bizaar , she is getting pro help but right now it is very hard on all of us do any of you have any ideas on how to deal with basically people who have dealt

2006-09-07 14:58:29 · 3 answers · asked by freeby1011 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-07 14:58:18 · 11 answers · asked by imyourangel0 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a nice personality adn alot of guys notice that so they try to talk to me and when i give in and start talking to them and date them later on i notice that they used me or trying to use me for certain things like money,sex,.....etc how can i stop them from doing this to me? this only happened to me twice and now i have a broken heart

2006-09-07 14:57:48 · 9 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Singles & Dating

I was friends with benefits with my best guyfriend, now he's back in college (4 hours away). He's now called the last two nights when he would barely call when he was here. Funny thing is that we talk about everything and I can tell he's jelous that I'm finding others when he hasn't found a girl. So is that what it's about or is there something more?

2006-09-07 14:57:34 · 20 answers · asked by slyshewolf 4 in Singles & Dating

ok dangit, i am apperently too femine, i hang out with girls like waaayyy to much, when i was younger, and i still do, but whtever, i like this one girl, and how do i know if she'll say yes if i ask her out, she is like so awsome, but everybody said she'd say no, ar they jealous, or will she really say no! and to make sure i don't kill anyone for calling me gay, how do i act more "manly" because apperently i'm not enough!

sigh....

2006-09-07 14:57:28 · 8 answers · asked by pimp_knuckles 3 in Singles & Dating

All the guys at my school all agree that I'm the hottest thing ever. And at the same time, all the girls get madly jealous; so due to that I have no friends. But, when I try to make friends with the guys, they act all nervous and weird (not themselves.). Why are they doing this? Is there anything I can do that they may feel more comfortable and talkative around me?

2006-09-07 14:56:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok first off i met my boyfriend 4 years ago and i dont know if i shoul stay with him for a longer time or should i end it here and start meeting more guys!!!???


p.s
but i love him and i dont want to cheat on him!!!

2006-09-07 14:56:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-07 14:55:27 · 6 answers · asked by crazygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Are thes e mind games or what? Theres this girl that i hav known all summer. She w/ with me too at the water park. I invited her to my house one day for a movie night with a bunch of other ppl. Soon rumors started spreading throughout my work that were dating. I called her and she denied everything and said she didnt like me. Now thats school started a whole car of cheerleaders pulled up next to me and my friend and screamed my name and labled me as her boyfriend and she was in the car too yelling the same thing. Wtf, right? Does she like me, making fun of me, or just playing with me? My friends make fun of her cuz shes a little chunky and im as skinny as a bike. Lol, I was thinking of asking her out for hoecoming but not sure wtf shes doing. Should I or no?

2006-09-07 14:55:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm deeply in love with my girlfriend of nine months. Recently she's been very "hot and cold" towards me. Sometimes everything is OK, other times she seems very disinterested/tired with our relationship and goes very long periods without telling me she loves me. Is it my insecurities talking? Is this normal? How important is hearing that your girlfriend/boyfriend loves you AND does this make make it seem worth it to you? [sorry for the multitude of questions]

2006-09-07 14:55:05 · 10 answers · asked by grunterer 1 in Singles & Dating

what are the signs of cheating?...... why do guys like to cheat on their wives?

2006-09-07 14:54:51 · 9 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Singles & Dating

In a matter of days, I will be with my girlfriend for 5 years. We love each other a lot, and are both 24. We've both never had sex, even though I want to. I've expressed this desire many times but she keeps coming up with pathetic excuses, like "parental pressure" (come on, she's 24), "religion" (that's why we've had oral sex right?), and now, the latest excuse, that she is having a midlife crisis (sex=grownup act).

We've done a lot of other intimate things, such as oral sex, so I know that she does have the physical urge but doesn't go through with it. We've gotten close to having sex on the first year of our relationship, but she was drunk, and I didn't want to have sex with her not being fully conscious and aware (see how considerate I am?).

I believe she has some psychological issue with actual sex. I've urged her to see a counselor about it but she refuses. I've tried everything. We've had numerous talks; it simply isn't going forward.

I don't know where to go from here.

2006-09-07 14:53:41 · 28 answers · asked by Clark K 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband doesn't pay me much attention anymore. We've ben together almost 4 years and been married a year and a half. He comes in from work and he's so tired, he watches tv all day. I try to do sweet things for him and sexy things to get his attention. But it seems that he just doesn't ever want to do anything. I'm not just talking about sex, but just holding me like he use to or showing a lil affection here and there. I'm beginning to feel lonely and unhappy. I've tried talkin to him, but he pays so much attention to the tv that I have to repeat myself several times. So I end up just walkin away cause he won't talk about it, or anything. We've lost comunication somewhere and I don't know what to do. I've tried everything to get his attention, but nothing seems to work. His given me a bad complex about myself. Sometimes I think of someone else. Is this my que to leave or is this just a rough spot?

2006-09-07 14:53:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-07 14:52:39 · 30 answers · asked by justme 2 in Singles & Dating

Personally, I think God has about much say as the man in the moon when it comes to finding love.

2006-09-07 14:52:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was wondering should I be bothered that my 25 year old boyfriend thought girls peed out of their butts?

2006-09-07 14:51:53 · 29 answers · asked by *Due 8/28/09* Baby Boy!#1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Alright, so I dont know if this seems selfish or jealous but I really need help. So my brother is a senior and its a "big" year for him( so he can get a scholership in football and get into college) My parents both told me that even though they won't mean to, they are probably going to pay more attention to him more than me. I'm just as athletic as him but I dont know.. Anyway then I found out my sister ( the only other support I had) is pregnant, and it's already bad enough I barely talk to her since she's married but now.. I have no one.. No one at all. Plus I'm at a totally new school with barely any friends. Who do I go to? What do I do?

2006-09-07 14:51:37 · 7 answers · asked by Danno 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex bf just broke up with me b/c he got mad at me for some reason that i dont know but he blames the whole thing on me so i ended the relationship before he did now he blames every thing on me...probably b/c im going out with his "bestfriend" as he says. but i just want to know why guys do that.

2006-09-07 14:50:34 · 26 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Other - Family & Relationships