ok first off i met my boyfriend 4 years ago and i dont know if i shoul stay with him for a longer time or should i end it here and start meeting more guys!!!???
p.s
but i love him and i dont want to cheat on him!!!
2006-09-07 14:56:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
umm... you should totally stay with him, you love him don't you?
Look at it this way if you leave him, one day your'e going to want him back, and when you do, he ain't gona want you.
stay with him, and don't cheat on him, if you really love him, you won't do something you don't want to.
2006-09-07 15:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you love him then no.. But if you don't know what to do then thats a problem.. you gave this guy 4 years.. whats making you change your mind now? I mean really i was with a guy for 8 years on and off. and i broke it off cause he cheated many of times. he wanted his cake and to eat it too. and thats how you sound. just remember if you cheat it will come back on you later on in life
2006-09-07 22:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by samantha_rose0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you answered your own question honey. I think you wanna have your cake and eat it too. What you need to do is be honest w/your boyfriend and tell him you want a chance to "live". He will be hurt, but will respect you in the long run. Because if you cheat, it's only gonna hurt even worse.
2006-09-07 22:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something has caused you to consider cheating on him and to have you come on here and ask this question. So I would guess you have started to notice other guys for what ever reason. You will need to think long and hard on this and then make your decision. For me personally when I get to this point my relationship is pretty much over.
~Good luck~
2006-09-07 22:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long term relationships are a very hard thing that everyone thinks is easy. you should really folow your heart and listen to what it has to say. if u still love your bf, stay with him. it normal to want to meet other ppl when youve dated someone for a very long time, that just means u want to experience those "fireworks" when u first meet someone. but your love for your bf it strong, i mean it has to be since youve been with the guy for 4 years. always folow your heart and do wats right for you.
2006-09-07 22:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by sarah_gotdance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋