Family & Relationships - 3 September 2006

Husband is 14 years older and am struggling with decision to leave.

I've just turned 30 - he just turned 44. We've been together 7 years and I'm starting to really feel the age gap.

He thinks the world of me and treats me really well, as I do him. We have no children together.

Its sinking in that 6 years from now I will be with a 50 year old man and I will only be 36. Can't sleep at night thinking about leaving - but feel really guilty. Even having panic attacks.

The age difference has never bothered me and feel shallow that it's starting to bother me. If I tell him how I feel he will tell me to leave, for my own good. But I know he will be heart broken, and so will I. He's always been sensitive about our age difference.

Should I leave while he is still young enough to get on with his life? Or should I try to stick it out and hope these feelings go away? (Have been feeling this way for a few months now).

2006-09-03 23:59:05 · 40 answers · asked by quay_grl 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-03 23:55:07 · 5 answers · asked by yuanlongsuper_1987 1 in Friends

2006-09-03 23:54:43 · 13 answers · asked by HeartsBreaker 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok it's been a year and a half since i've dated anyone. I'm so use to getting screwed over in relationships that i've become tired of trying to find someone. Although i find myself lonely when i get home. I mean i'll go out, but i'm not sure what to do anymore...i'm tired of the same old thing. Any advice on how to know if a woman is interested in you? I need help stat.

2006-09-03 23:54:34 · 6 answers · asked by clownkilling 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-09-03 23:53:18 · 1 answers · asked by Sexy C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when your other half goes out on the beer with his exgirlfriend and her friends and you live like 3000 miles away?

2006-09-03 23:51:57 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should I give as answer.

2006-09-03 23:51:18 · 14 answers · asked by Rawkus 3 in Friends

in my view lie+100000= paki girl

2006-09-03 23:51:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we both grew up and had children..he went through a bad patch in his relationship and i got in contact with him, and then we drifted and now he is back in touch again with me out of the blue, he says he has a lot of feelings for me and always has, we are both in relationships although I like him alot i dont know what to do, can anyone help

2006-09-03 23:50:48 · 3 answers · asked by nat c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm not serious about the boyfriend, (I am happily married) but he's sometimes less attentive than I'd like. My husband and my boyfriend know all about each other. I just want to know if you all think I should move on and find a more appreciative boyfriend, or am I asking too much?

2006-09-03 23:50:25 · 12 answers · asked by silentsam 1 in Singles & Dating

i can't get it resized for 3 weeks & i do not want to lose it in the mean time so is their anything i can do to stop it falling off?

2006-09-03 23:46:27 · 20 answers · asked by li3a28 1 in Weddings

See, i love my wife to be, i won't call her a GF cuz she's more than that to me, we are getting married soon, anyways, we decided that we'll save together, she already put some savings she saved before and some other amounts in before i put a penny, and the other day, i wanted -not needed- something and i took the money from her as a loan, now, i told her i have to give them back to you, but she doesn't want that and she says there is no difference between us we are one, we are the same and our money is the same, i do feel that, and i do believe that, but there is a part that tells me i have to give her the money back, is this the male in me? or is this what i have to do? what would you do if you were me? would you borrow from the one you love if you didn't have enough and then give it back? or just forget it cuz whatever you both make is for both of you?! thnx.

2006-09-03 23:45:45 · 14 answers · asked by pal970 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-03 23:44:48 · 16 answers · asked by signedfor4 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not asking age of your spouse or GF/BF !! I am asking what age's partner would you prefer for sex ?

2006-09-03 23:42:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this girl that I'm really attracted to but has a son.We talked a little bit about each other but stopped because she had to leave.I know she has a son (3yrs old I think) but she has never mentioned him.Should I ask her about her kid or wait until she brings it up?I know she knows that I know or at least suspects that I know,but I don't want to make her unconfortable.Please help!Thanks
PS...I really don't care if she has a kid,it doesn't bother me at all becuase I really like this girl and if you really love someone (too soon to know) you will accept them just the way they are,with kids and everything.

2006-09-03 23:40:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 9 months has a habbit of breaking his promises. He'll say he'll quit doing drugs, but soon after he makes that promise he's back to smoking (This has happened countless times). He'll say that he'll never do this or that again, but he continually falls back on his word. He's even admitted to me before that he sometimes just tells me what he thinks I want to hear in order to get me to shut up.

I've tried communitcating with him thousands of times, but he always walks away, seemingly without remorse...and then an hour later he'll come back to me acting as if nothing happened.

This is driving me nuts--what do I do?

2006-09-03 23:37:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I look at other women all the time. I dont think I would ever be unfaithful to my wife but think about having sex with other women.

2006-09-03 23:33:42 · 46 answers · asked by Bob S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-03 23:32:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Single women seem to avoid me for various reasons. I listen to women, respect women and I am a gentleman. I work out when I get the time and I am bettering myself by going to college. I volunteer regularly in the community. It is hard enough trying to find women that do this that are single.

2006-09-03 23:31:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm asking this coz i checked this out in the yahoo movies and imdb but with little success..so pls..let me know the name of the director and the year it was made so as to find out what's all about this movie as i heard it depicted about west virginia and it's connectin to incest and deformity...pls help..tks...

2006-09-03 23:30:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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2006-09-03 23:30:06 · 10 answers · asked by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 in Singles & Dating

what makes some people endure a subordinate position in a friendship, yet others have to be treated with equal respect or its no deal?

2006-09-03 23:28:25 · 13 answers · asked by catweazle 5 in Friends

What factors affect a good probability of remarriage for both men and women ?

2006-09-03 23:28:18 · 18 answers · asked by Bachelor boy 2 in Singles & Dating

brains and beauty too

2006-09-03 23:26:16 · 6 answers · asked by ho2asme 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-03 23:24:56 · 20 answers · asked by JOE Z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been watching porn for a while now...but recently i thought it would be a great idea to watch it with my bf. I know that for me the visual stimulus is GREAT but the main reason for me to watch it is b/c i am really into trying new things and want to please my guy the best way i can. Yesterday i found out he was looking for porn and it really bothered me...i guess cus i dont know what is going on in his mind when he watches it. I told him that for me it gets me horny but that mainly i watch it for any new ideas they might give me...so he told me that its the same reason for him...the new idea bit. I dont think its fair for me to be upset but does it sound as though he is telling me the truth? Its not as though he hid it when i confronted him with it...and later i even looked through whatever he had seen, with him.

2006-09-03 23:22:40 · 8 answers · asked by Patience 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-03 23:22:03 · 18 answers · asked by lovemykalli 4 in Singles & Dating

two weeks ago, we said i was coming over in two weeks. days pass and i know i'm not going but i find it SOOOO hard to tell him i cant come. i have told him this twice before, that i cant go. but in my heart i want to so so so bad. it isn't possible for me, there is no way i can make it. so now the plane is supposed to go tomorrow with me on it and i hear his voice and i try to tell him, but it's like 'just give me one more day with him'. we have a deep love that's difficult to understand, we have been through alot. i was married when we met, he has been with other women because he was so jealous over time of me being with my husband. even now if i'm out he thinks there is someone else, but it's only him. it was only him i thought of when i was with my husband (who was really bad for me) i cant go because something holds me back, but if i tell him it will just go one way. in that it wont be over, but we will both feel bad, i want to be with him so bad but it's impossible.

2006-09-03 23:21:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i want this guy so bad but im completley his opposite .im not exactly skinny more plump i would say, we hooked up and had sex he says he likes me but when i asked him if he seen himself with me in a serious relationship he said his heart got broke and just wants to be with himself.then after says lets be friends ,why now all of a sudden we just freinds after we had sex already and spent nights at his house with him, hes twenty and im three yrs older, i cant stop thinking of him and i feel so rejected becoz i feel its has something to do with the way i look or im not average weight for him he doesnt tell me this but it what i think. wtf? any guys to answer this be honest what would u be thinking if u done this or got asked this by a girl?

2006-09-03 23:21:51 · 3 answers · asked by ninanite 1 in Singles & Dating

that i would be an interestin person to go out wit or be really clos friend to

2006-09-03 23:21:27 · 4 answers · asked by young nipplez 1 in Singles & Dating