I have been watching porn for a while now...but recently i thought it would be a great idea to watch it with my bf. I know that for me the visual stimulus is GREAT but the main reason for me to watch it is b/c i am really into trying new things and want to please my guy the best way i can. Yesterday i found out he was looking for porn and it really bothered me...i guess cus i dont know what is going on in his mind when he watches it. I told him that for me it gets me horny but that mainly i watch it for any new ideas they might give me...so he told me that its the same reason for him...the new idea bit. I dont think its fair for me to be upset but does it sound as though he is telling me the truth? Its not as though he hid it when i confronted him with it...and later i even looked through whatever he had seen, with him.
2006-09-03 23:22:40 · 8 answers · asked by Patience 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have watched it together and it was really awesome! I just dont feel secure when he watches it by himself...i dont know why...i feel threatened...actually we were drinking yesterday and asked him again why he watches it and told me that its just the fact of the breasts and vagina...ok i understand this but anyway for me to not be jealous and think that its because im not good enough for him? I just dont want him to get addicted...im happy i introduced it into our relationship...but now i feel kind of insecure about the whole thing.
2006-09-05 08:18:39 · update #1
He is stimulated by watching porn, and apparently you are too, so just watch porn and be happy together.
Anyone that says they watch it only to learn technique would also lie about reading adult magazines for the articles. If you wanted to learn technique you would read a detailed book on technique, if you want to see staged sex and staged female orgasms you watch porn.
2006-09-03 23:36:03 · answer #1 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You my dear are a hypocrite.
Sounds like you don't like him doing it behind your back because you can't control what he watches.
If you can watch porn alone, then so can he. Turnabout is fair play ;) But you should have learned THAT in your porn watching ventures!
2006-09-03 23:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats not why he looks at it. but it isn't that bad if a guy looks at porn. he is trying not to hurt your feelings by saying he looks at other girls. which shows he cares. unless he is obsessive about it, i'd say you have nothing to worry about. maybe you could watch it together (if it's not something that would bother you) it would make his day.
2006-09-03 23:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by purple_butterflyuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u guys will enjoy screwing each other's brains out. Relax. I learn things too. Now Im horny!
2006-09-03 23:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by Tall Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a porn advizer, maybe i can help.
if u want to watch porn with him for new ideas
why not CHOOSE what to watch with him
and WHEN to watch it regularly
if u need any help picking what u want to watch
send me
amrrahmy@yahoo.com
2006-09-05 04:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by racer222112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, I thing you should watch it together. While watching it follow the movie it will make it more fun and interesting too
2006-09-03 23:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by af_guy_20001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch it togather and practice the styles 2,its fun
2006-09-03 23:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by Snifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intellegent people creat new ideas themselves with intellegent women.
2006-09-03 23:29:36 · answer #8 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋