2006-09-03 23:44:48 · 16 answers · asked by signedfor4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
think of all the bad things you had with them as you find a new one
2006-09-03 23:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate? Oh, that is the best way??? Grow up, if you make yourself hate someone, then it is going to make you miserable, not the other person. Just say it was not meant to be or something like that. Make it easy on yourself, and say, it is the other person's problem and free yourself. If you hate, then you keep it inside you, so let it go. You want to be free, not full of anger. It won't make the loss any easier, just say they were a jerk or whatever, and the next person will get it too. Go get someone else. Don't dwell on the negative, others will see it in you, and they will shy away from you. Put a smile on your face, and guess what, you win.
2006-09-03 23:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by shardf 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no need to turn old love into hate. The loss can be made easier by keeping yourself busy and distracting yourself until enough time has gone by. Just do things that you enjoy. Spend time with friends, watch movies, read, play games, think about who else you find attractive and that will help in a much healthier way.
2006-09-03 23:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by Kami 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Loss of any kind is never easy. You must turn that old love into forgiveness not hate. Then and only then will it be easier but never easy.
2006-09-03 23:48:35 · answer #4 · answered by pops 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a situatuion you are in. I guess I would have to ask you for more information. Are you in love with someone who left you and you are trying to let go or are you in a relationship and want out so you want to make that person hate you.
Either way, I think you're going about it wrong. Just move on with your life. Find things to do. Make new friends. Work out. Clean your house. Go out to dance. Do something. Don't sit there and look at pictures or listen to love songs.
2006-09-03 23:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by Roger S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You take the mature, responsible approach by getting counseling, reading self-help books or seeking much needed support from your friends. You should take up a hobby to keep yourself busy and avoid (for the time being), those places and activities that bring back painful memories. Also, if you are able to refocus your attention in a more positive way, you will feel better about yourself and will be a better example to others.
2006-09-03 23:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by mad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate doesn't make the loss easier, it just covers it up and it takes even longer to heal.
2006-09-03 23:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hating someone is not going to make anything easier, if anything it's just going to bring bitterness into your own heart and make you miserable. Forgiveness is the key to letting go of the pain. Some kind of way...in your heart...you are going to have to forgive to go on. Pray for the Lord to help you to forgive and just forgive...you will be blessed in the end...because while you are hating that other person, they are not going to care, but you will suffer unnecessarily for it. Be Blessed!
2006-09-03 23:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by caramel_angelkiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate only keeps you dwelling on the pain of the loss, what you want to find is a way to move on and the easiest way to move on is to find someone else to love.
2006-09-03 23:47:09 · answer #9 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont forget.. what goes around comes around; you dump someone now for a stupid reason, someone is going to hurt you the same way, No matter how beautiful or handsome a person you are...Looks are only secondary after the initial first impression. You will suffer the consequences
2006-09-03 23:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by bloodyminidriver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont try to turn it into hate that takes to much energy. Find someone new and just move on.
2006-09-03 23:50:09 · answer #11 · answered by Dorrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋