I look at other women all the time. I dont think I would ever be unfaithful to my wife but think about having sex with other women.
2006-09-03 23:33:42 · 46 answers · asked by Bob S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Looking doesn't bother me, just be respectful about it (also don't make sly comments) but touching is a completely different story
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-03 23:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looking at other women...while working or outing is not a problem cause U can't keep your eye shut isn't it...but if U are married don't even think about having sex with other women...How about your wife's thinking...the same about what U are thinking.... U like it? In the first place why bother to get married if U have intention to have sex with several others.
2006-09-04 00:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by Bugsy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To think it you are cheating!!Why cant you just be happy with your wife and look at her!!If your not then find out why.Maybe you and your wife can sit down and see whats wrong cause something aint good or you wouldnt be lookin.ANd if it cant be fixed then get a divorce and look all you want on your own,I just think its rude as h$ll for a man to check out women when he is married !!SO stop have some respect for your wife!
2006-09-03 23:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not if its' just looking. We are human, we are not robots. If I see a particularly fine women I might even point her out, hell - she points them out to ME! When the marriage is secure, this is no big thing. Now, I did say just looking. Like looking at nudey magazines or videos. I don't go to strip clubs because there is something about being treated as a first class sucker that doesn't appeal to me. When alone in public, I don't even speak to women, there is no reason to say hello because 99% of the time the woman gets guys trying to push up on her. I am more likely to say Good morning to an old lady because the respect thing gives them a thrill.
But these young girls? - 15, 20 years and more younger? I won't even give them a good look if it looks like I'll get caught by them. Their egos don't need it.
2006-09-03 23:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by Andre1998 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you talk to your wife and see what she thinks about that. Some women would say looking at another women is about the same as cheating and they wont stand for it. If you are married then you dont need to be checking out other women.
2006-09-03 23:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Its just a natural thing,can't help yourself,Its just mans nature.About the sex part,if you keep those thoughts in ur head;if the opportunity presents itself,well the thought is already there??? yes its bad,with what ur thinking,oh don't let ur wife catch u lOOking!and yes its a SIN!!! What ur thinking.
2006-09-03 23:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by curious one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha ... yes, all men should have their eyes gouged out immediately after the wedding ceremony.
Obviously, if you're ogling other women in the presence of your wife, that isn't a good idea. But if you discreetly admire other women while treating your wife like the love of your life ... you're walking on safer ground. My grandmother used to say that a wise man knows which side of the bread his butter is on ... do you get my drift?
2006-09-03 23:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by Myrna B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is normal for men to look at other women as it is normal for women to look at other men. That is normal.
Looking at other women and thinking about having sex with them is not. If you are looking at other women and would have sex with them if they said they would have it with you then you have a problem and should not have gotten married.
When you have those thoughts focus them towards your wife.
2006-09-03 23:54:31 · answer #8 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love you wife. Never let her see you look and if you need to let her know that you do look your just looking for approval from her. It hurts a good woman when you look, it makes her feel like theres more she needs to be doing or something is wrong or not good enough about her. Dont do it and if you do dont do it when you are with her. Thats just so wrong.
2006-09-03 23:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by JustAGirl 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everything you do starts as a thought. If you entertain those thoughts for long enough I promise you that you will find it very difficult to stay faithful to your wife. Don't minimise / rationalise it...explore options with your own wife to make your sex life more exciting!!
2006-09-04 01:14:42 · answer #10 · answered by Issabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋