Family & Relationships - 7 September 2006

I met a guy 3 years ago in a place I was working, he liked me and I liked him but I didn't allow anyhting to happen because I knew my friend liked him too.
I go back to the place I used to work every year on holiday, he still works there. Whenever I see him on my own he is really pleased to see me and there is definate chemistry there. When my ex-boyfriend was with me he would only talk to him then just keep watching me all night.
I never took the guys contact details (i'm useless like that!) but I think I have his e-mail address now. I'm now single so it would be ok for me to meet up with him.
Should I make contact with him or would that be a but weird?

2006-09-07 23:38:53 · 7 answers · asked by cheeky_delinquent 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

but is faithful to me at this time but I think it's effecting our sex life. Should I ask him to cut back or leave it alone?

2006-09-07 23:37:59 · 14 answers · asked by paigenstuff 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my partner has been septarted from his ex for almost 2 years, she left him with the children, she has applied for divorce they have the nicise but she hasn't applied for the aboslute, she wont talk, now doesnt have a solicitor and he wants to buy her out, 2 help her as well as she has hit hard times - but she is being stuborn

2006-09-07 23:37:24 · 11 answers · asked by Tina F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is that you find atractive in a man i know looks are important but are they every thing and why are all the good looking women (not all) with complete ars****** when there are people who are nice blokes who carn't get no one????????????????

2006-09-07 23:36:04 · 11 answers · asked by dave_20385 2 in Singles & Dating

personal experionce

2006-09-07 23:32:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About a month ago my boyfriend asked if he could spank me. I said no because of my feminist principles. He asked again about a week ago. Again I said no. Then I told my best friend about it, expecting her to agree with me. She was actually surprised I had refused and said she was spanked by her BF often. I asked a couple of other friends and they said similar things. Is getting spanked normal? Am I one of the few women who have refused? Should I change my mind and let my BF spank me?

2006-09-07 23:32:28 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-07 23:31:55 · 10 answers · asked by Vance 1 in Singles & Dating

Pls help me here. can any one tell me that can i marry my uncles granddaughter (my dad's elder brother's daughthers daughter)? is it legal or can there be a problem in marraige? PLS HELP ME HERE

2006-09-07 23:29:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-07 23:27:45 · 20 answers · asked by Just me!! 2 in Singles & Dating

Many married couples always say they dont have time for each other but they always have time for.
1. Going on computer for hours to flirt.
2. Have an affiair

But never have time for the person the said they loved and exchanged vows to love each other.

2006-09-07 23:27:35 · 16 answers · asked by Mit 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband is living out of india , i dont know when will he be calling me over there . sometimes he says 1 yr or 2 yr and sometimes he says no need to come, i'll come back. i dont know wht to do ... as i am pissed off with my life and my inlaws also....pls help how can i convince my husband for that

2006-09-07 23:26:07 · 9 answers · asked by cindrella 1 in Family

For some unknown reason, I’m always single.. I’m 28 and I get told all the time how beautiful and intelligent and nice I am, but I guess I’m shy and I’ve only had 2 (short term) boyfriends in my life (and a handful of dates?!). Guys, do u get turned off by this? Would you wonder what’s wrong with a girl like me?

2006-09-07 23:25:09 · 13 answers · asked by Veronica 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you think about it ??

2006-09-07 23:24:34 · 7 answers · asked by liza 4 in Singles & Dating

Im so dead. nothing good has happened this year. and whatever happened was sooooo bad. No matter that's about my career or relationship. I really wanna die. Have a terrible headache now. Could anyone help???????????

2006-09-07 23:23:42 · 11 answers · asked by Lisa C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-07 23:23:27 · 5 answers · asked by Dana 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 23:22:17 · 20 answers · asked by nat c 1 in Family

2006-09-07 23:22:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

dont tell me be sweet n nice n stuff.. that dont work .. trust me ..
girls r just weird if ur nice to them .. they ***** on u .. if u aint nice sweet n dont care about them . they like u .. THEY LOVE BOYS THAT THEY CANT HAVE !! how to balnce between being sweet without losing my touch lol and being not caring without being mean or w.e .. cause i see a lots of boys who ARE NOT good bfs but their gfs crazy about them . and im so good bf to my girl but she dont love me that much .. it always end up me saying " if she dont care then fu*k her ill get another one ' but its always the same..:( thats messed up ,, bottom line is "HOW I CAN STILL BE INTERSTIN TO GIRLS "

2006-09-07 23:21:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or is it some one elses resposability now .
If not are you comfortable with this.
Does your child care for you any more .
Do you call them on the phone .
If you can say yes , good luck , I don't need your answer.
Only the self indulged need reply .

2006-09-07 23:21:48 · 7 answers · asked by kevin d 4 in Family

The person is not very negative but thinks a bit negative many times so how can we save or help tht person from being negative??


have a nice day!!

2006-09-07 23:15:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is the diffrent smell make us to turn on? Any idea..

2006-09-07 23:14:35 · 16 answers · asked by md m 2 in Singles & Dating

Just started dating a guy from my circle of friends. He told me that he had dated a few people in the group but refused to tell me who - "its irrelevant to us". I wasn't happy about him not telling me because these are people with whom I associate & I hated the idea of chatting with a woman he had been intimate with.

A few weeks back of course it happened. Plus she (not knowing he & I were an item) told me what a bastard he was etc. I was pissed off at the time because we had actually discussed this woman and he didnt tell me anything about the relationship. I felt he had lied by omission. Her comments also made me doubt he was the person I thought I knew.

So now some other woman has alluded to something too; I dont know if its just friendly or there is more to it & am feeling really insecure. I am so honest with him & I want the same, not just about this. It makes me wonder what else he doesnt tell me.

Am I being unreasonable? Are my worries unfounded? Im in my 30s.

2006-09-07 23:14:33 · 17 answers · asked by monicag12 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 23:14:32 · 18 answers · asked by All the answers 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 23:13:00 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend has had a longdistance relationship for 4 and a half years. i really love him. but we are always arguing.last week we got in an arguement because i saw a girl writing him messages on his myspace page. from what she wrote it didnt seem like they were just friends. so i questioned him about it and he got so mad. and we stopped talking for a couple of days. then when he finally did call me he told me that since he cant talk to me, he talks to other girls.i try to talk to him but he never seem like he wants to talk. what should i do?

2006-09-07 23:11:56 · 16 answers · asked by kelli c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean for real! Not the thing were people pretend that they forgot just so they can throw you a surprize party! I mean really forgot!

Well that is what happened to me yesterday and it feels pretty rotten, if you ask me! I mean my mother, father and husband said,"happy birthday" to me so I know they remember the day but that was it! No cake, no cards no presents, nothing!

I would have loved even a homemade cake and a letter written on notebook paper that said how much they care! Anything is better than nothing!

Should I feel so rotten? I mean I am 28 yrs. old now! It is not like I am a child and this happened to me, but in my heart it still hurts!

2006-09-07 23:10:16 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i love him the day i first day i laid my eyes on him..but he happaned to ignore it..i know he has a feeling for me 2. i can feel it..but he doesn't want to admit it..he is my college instructor..what shall i do so dat he'll admit his feelings for me?

2006-09-07 23:09:56 · 16 answers · asked by ladyleigh 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 23:08:58 · 16 answers · asked by Vance 1 in Singles & Dating

im having a 3sum me and my fiance want to get married we kno we can do that but this is the thing my fiance also wants to marry my gf and i want to marry my gf i was wondering is there a state that will marry me to her and him to her because me and my fiance can get married in the state we live in

2006-09-07 23:07:19 · 21 answers · asked by lilmissbunny85 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i love my husband but i want out. i feel am not getting enough and i feel since i was 17 when i made the decision of marriage i might have made a mistake.he treats me badly sometimes even if am carrying our second child and when i say am leaving he says it's ok with him.but he is a nice person and i know that he has some feelings for me.i have an ex thats offering me the whole world if i agree to be with him he just does not know am carrying my 2nd baby.i am thinking of having my baby then going to him but am also scared cos i met him last 5 years ago and i dont know if he has changed or what he is really like now.i dont have any money since i just finished school so i cant decide to just live on my own for sometime and make up my mind.and as for my parents they wont even listen to me so i have to bear this on my own.I am 22 years old.please do offer me some good advice.

2006-09-07 23:05:53 · 16 answers · asked by sadia 2 in Marriage & Divorce