how to make a girl love me?!?

Question

dont tell me be sweet n nice n stuff.. that dont work .. trust me ..
girls r just weird if ur nice to them .. they ***** on u .. if u aint nice sweet n dont care about them . they like u .. THEY LOVE BOYS THAT THEY CANT HAVE !! how to balnce between being sweet without losing my touch lol and being not caring without being mean or w.e .. cause i see a lots of boys who ARE NOT good bfs but their gfs crazy about them . and im so good bf to my girl but she dont love me that much .. it always end up me saying " if she dont care then fu*k her ill get another one ' but its always the same..:( thats messed up ,, bottom line is "HOW I CAN STILL BE INTERSTIN TO GIRLS "

Answer 1

I wish you luck on that one, Each woman or ladie is not like the last one, some just want to ****. and that is it, some want men with money, a job, house,car/s, plane/s. or the simple man that they can control. or a father fig, boyfriend. to really understand a woman/ladie, ask them what they what. It may your looks, Or you are not ****ing them Right. spending alot of time with them, or spending money, Or that you are to controlling? you have to look at yourself to really answers something,

Answer 2

First of all you're not of to a good start with an attidtude like that. You don't know much about what girls like.

Second of all, you can't MAKE a girl love you.

Just be yourself. If the person you're with doesn't like that, she's not the person you should be with. Yeah girls like the Bad Boy type, but you can be the bad boy and the good guy at the same time. You know, likes to have fun, but is mature enough to not REALLY take big risks. Likes to wrestle his girl, but still listens to her when she's serious. Likes to take charge of the situation, but will do it in a way that fits her wants and needs. The badboy/good guy type pretends not to want to settle down until the right girl comes along and "changes his life".

But don't try to be somebody you're not. You'll attract the wrong person and six months down the road when you start feeling comfortable enough to be yourself, it won't be pleasant for you. Your whole relationship up to that point will be a lie. Trust me I know.

Answer 3

Sometimes it's enough to look in a guy's eyes. This is how I test them. The connection building up is incredible. You shouldn't be cocky, but also never look away. Notice if she looks back at U. If she does just say Hy and try a decent conversation.
I guess what U do is being nice at first, and then after a while U really show the real U. Of course it wouldn't work. Girls actually like it when guys are mean, but not to them. Be mean to anybody around you but show her all attention and affection she can get.

Answer 4

Women love men with ambition .not money although thats good too.Where do you work?I DONT CARE IF ITS MCDONALDS WOMEN WANT TO DATE MANAGERS AND SUPERVISORS why well it makes you seem responsible,easy to take home to mom and dad and uniforms are so sexy.You would not beleive how the girls where I work at fight over short unattractive supervisors.What im saying is work on your self that way and the girls will just come to you you wont have to chase them.Every girl wants either to date a rock star or her boss or just plain a boss maybe not hers.Maybe thay want cheif of police or a lawyer but when a man is in charge of his own life he seems so much more desirable.So whether you want to run a restaurant work in a factory or maybe just be aforeman in construction when your given a little work and responsibility you may blossom .trust me this will make you into a real catch.

Answer 5

You can not "make" someone love you. Sounds like she hangs with you just to have a boyfriend, but when a different one comes along ,honey i think you will be history. Sorry to be mean, but that is the way it usually goes.

Answer 6

well,this is your problem,that u pretend to be what you arent just to make an impression.just be yourself....n about your question,you cannot make any one fall in love with you.it is a very natural process n has to happen naturally,learn to be happy with what u have n who you have....if u feel your girl doesnt5 love u enough,talk to her n let her know n get to know the reason behind it,learn to sort issues rather running away from them,good luck!!

Answer 7

you can't make someone love you it's there or it's not.........however personally i like sweet and nice guys yes i probably get weird if a guy is sweet to me because i'm not used to it but it makes u like him. girls like guys they can talk to and who treat them nice

Answer 8

You can't, they either do or they don't.
And, apparently boys love girls they can't have as well.

Answer 9

they won't u ain't got titties