The person is not very negative but thinks a bit negative many times so how can we save or help tht person from being negative??
have a nice day!!
2006-09-07 23:15:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Plz help!!!
2006-09-07 23:18:12 · update #1
Plz help!!!
2006-09-07 23:18:13 · update #2
That person is ready to change!!
2006-09-07 23:45:05 · update #3
Show him/her the positive view in each event or thing that is around him. Stop listening to rock music. Its really bad.
Music turns up your mood instantly & lift your spirits.
Negative person needs someone besides him all the time.
He should be shown that being negative and positive is our own choice & being positive always helps. Giving example of disabled people who are optimistic about life.
2006-09-07 23:24:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
negativity is a manner in which a thought is processed,its very hard to change the way a person thinks ,but saying that ,you could ask this person to exsplain to you their thought process,as you dont understand ,then this way you will either get a better chance at understanding the way they think and see things ,and also a chance to put your thoughts to them ,,this way they will understand you better too and may even see more sence in what you are saying and convert that paticular thought ,
its a worth while thing to do ,because after doing this you will be closer than ever before and understand each other so much better ,that after a while you will not need to ask what they are thinking ,because you will already have a good idea,
so good luck ,and keep your mind open to suggestion ,this way you will become very dear friends ,that will last a life time ,at the end of the day we are all entitled to see and think as we please,its all a learning process that we have to live with .,
remember we are learning all the time how to understand each other,and we will still be doing it at 90.
good luck.
2006-09-07 23:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by whitecloud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine my large warfare with being and staying effective is the adverse voice in my head that tells me i'm no longer solid sufficient. i imagine it truly is my lack of self belief speaking!! i attempt to purely provide up the idea no matter if it truly is adverse and picture some thing effective quite. also i'm able to't keep being all moody and self pitying if i imagine of what number of human beings contained in the international are quite suffering. It makes my issues look tiny. Oh and that i attempt to jot down 3 issues that were effective in my day each and every nighttime! perchance watch Pollyanna - the ultimate movie contained in the international!! xxx xx x
2016-11-06 21:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by derival 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to realize that no one ever changes unless they want that change for themselves. He/she needs to want to change. What you see is what you get, that is what attracted you to this individual in the first place. No successful relationship was ever created on potential. If you do succeed in changing this person, will they still be attractive to you? In most cases, the answer is no because they are no longer the person whom you felt attracted. I am not saying that you should not be supportive of the goals they are trying to reach, but understand that it must be THEIR goal, not YOURS.
2006-09-07 23:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey......you had better learn from this minute forward for the rest of your life, sweetie, that you cannot change another person so I suggest that you give it up NOW!! Don't even waste one more second on that. If you are unable to accept a person for who they are....faults and all.....then they need not be in your life........period!
2006-09-07 23:24:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when those negative times come up, try suggestive reasoning that remind him of the positives of that situation
2006-09-07 23:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by tim s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't fix someone else, you can only choose to move on and find a positive person to be with.
2006-09-07 23:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First try to change urself and thne try to know why he is doing so, may be he/she is right at his place. or if he is wrong prove with a strong reson that he is wrong with a +ve attitude.
u will win
2006-09-13 18:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by ANS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can change him with true love and affection. explain the pleasures of life. life is also meant for living happily. ask him to read some self development books.
2006-09-09 04:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying to change people and just accept that they have choosen the dark side of life.
good day
2006-09-07 23:20:17 · answer #10 · answered by wicked jester 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋