For some unknown reason, I’m always single.. I’m 28 and I get told all the time how beautiful and intelligent and nice I am, but I guess I’m shy and I’ve only had 2 (short term) boyfriends in my life (and a handful of dates?!). Guys, do u get turned off by this? Would you wonder what’s wrong with a girl like me?
2006-09-07 23:25:09 · 13 answers · asked by Veronica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for all your (quick!) responses - I really appreciate your views and especially encouraging and lovely comments! It's very hard to pick the best one?! Cheers and have a good nite!! :) *mwah*
2006-09-07 23:38:08 · update #1
Not turned off at all. A turn off to me is a girl who has had more boyfriends than she can count on two hands. Getting around so much only shows that she cant be serious about anything and isn't worth the time. You sound like a person holding out for the right thing rather than right now. There is nothing wrong with that.
2006-09-07 23:31:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If u were say 35 to 40 and not married & no kids then I might wonder whats wrong. For now don't worry your OK.
2006-09-07 23:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that there is anything wrong with you. Maybe the guys that do like you don't know how to say it, or the guys aren't sure if they should ask you out. Maybe it is because they don't know if you are into them or not. 28 & single... Nothing wrong.
2006-09-07 23:33:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I get "turned on" by that. I wouldn't wonder what's wrong with you because I'm in a similiar category as yourself. Instead, I'd wonder what all the other guys didn't see in you and what I could see in you.
But hey.. that's just me.
2006-09-07 23:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Single at 28 is not a problem, come back with a real problem.
2006-09-07 23:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was just like you.
i had a problem with comitment. even though i thought that i was ready to go for a relationship - after a lot of meditation and overthinking the problem i worked out, that i have that problem.
i'm with my man for 4 years now and i still have it - but i learn how to handle it...day after day
2006-09-07 23:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by 42 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have not found the right guy and when you do it will be magic. I think you being picky makes it better who wants a girl who has had numerous dates or boyfriends.
2006-09-07 23:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by gould1272 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a turn off but makes me wonder why.
2006-09-07 23:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by want2wild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too needy or you talk too much about getting married, kids, or you gab too much about being alone.....
Be yourself, make friends and a special person will come along.
Relationships and sex are not competitions.
2006-09-07 23:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by Captain Tomak 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wonder. But I might take a chance anyways.
2006-09-07 23:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋